Poor Roberta and her poor motherIt is nice to see Roberta smiling, she did not have an easy life as her infancy was not a happy one. Her family had a tragic story.
I could not find anything about Roberta or her mother, but in one of the articles the grandparents who lived in California were mentioned (probably Roberta’s mothers parents), nobody from Minnesota.Absolutely tragic. An apparently severely mentally ill father with some kind of religious syndrome that led to him and 2 sons being killed. Immigration issues were not the cause but triggered. Terrible fate. I wonder what happened to Roberta and her mom after that incident? Die the mom remarry? Was Roberta with her mom or put in foster care or with a relative (not unusual in the 50s for children of single parents). I wish we could learn more about her life.
Precious soul, rest in peace
you are loved and reunited with your family.
This helps. I had found an obituary of an “Arline Seyfert” or “Arline Mary Seyfert” of Monticello, MN (she lived in a nursing home), which is only 51 miles away from Lilydale, where our Doe was found. Her burial site, St. Michael, is closer, though not by much, at about 45 minutes:Surprised there aren't any new articles on her identification. Did a google search of her name and usually when there's a new id I can find local news reporting. But so far nothing. Maybe I'm wrong.
I looked up her father's name and found this.
Charles A Seyfert (1920-1958) - Find a Grave...
States that he was born in North Dakota in 1920. Shows he was enlisted "Sept. 1942 to July 1943, Pvt-lcl U.S. Army."
Looks like there's another spelling of his wife's name from the articles cited by @inmyhumbleopinion above.
"Applicant's name for his headstone is, Arline M. Seyfert who resided in Tucson, Arizona."
This helps. I had found an obituary of an “Arline Seyfert” or “Arline Mary Seyfert” of Monticello, MN (she lived in a nursing home), which is only 51 miles away from Lilydale, where our Doe was found. Her burial site, St. Michael, is closer, though not by much, at about 45 minutes:
Google Maps
The Madera Tribune article gives Mrs. Seyfert’s age at the time of the incident as 34 (in April of 1958), and the obituary I found says, “She was born in Minneapolis Aug. 8, 1924 …,” so it matches there (you have to scroll way down):
Miscellaneous Hennepin County, MN Obituaries
I wonder when her mother or others noticed she was missing?![]()
Rest in peace, Roberta.
I wonder when her mother or others noticed she was missing?
We can learn something about Roberta’s mother from the obituary. She never married again and had no other kids, she was loved by her family, she had two sisters and nephews and nieces, one niece was probably specifically close to her. Also she “liked music, always had a bright outlook and was an inspiration to all who knew her”.Maybe she didnt grow up with her mother? In the 50s, children of "criminals" were often removed from their mothers care, even if the mothers were innocent and placed in foster families or homes. I wonder whether that was the case and that is why nobody missed her. Also, after that massive of a trauma, i wonder if the mother was mentally stable enough to raise a (traumatized) child. There was no real access to therapy back then.
Or maybe, Roberta was reported missing but since she was an adult, nothing became of it.
Really i wish we knew more about Roberta and her mom after the headlines.
Roberta's older brothers are also buried in the same cemetery as her father. While it may have been a standard tombstone at one time for this memorial park in California, I found the design on the tombstones of her father and brothers (as well as on a tombstone of a paternal uncle who died much later) of a boat sailing for heaven interesting, given how they died. Her brother's tombstone (and the uncle's) also include one line of the British poet Tennyson's poem ''Crossing the Bar'' which continues the same theme. It was popular in Victorian times- her mother, although born in 1924, seems to have been familiar with it and presumably liked it since it is on the tombstone of both of her sons. Just some thoughts that came to mind when I saw the tombstones of Roberta's brothers Thomas G W Seyfert (1948-1958) - Find a Grave.... I find poetry and cemeteries interesting as well as true crime cases. Roberta's mother seems to have recovered well from the tragedies that happened to her and been a resilient person, judging from her obit. It not only doesn't mention Roberta (for whatever reason), but neither does it mention her sons. Whether what happened to Roberta was another great tragedy for her(Roberta disappearing suddenly), or if her mother didn't have a great relationship with her and she just assumed Roberta was out there living her life or hoped that, would be interesting to know.
There is no preceded in death section in Arlene’s obituary, so it looks like it was a decision not to mention anyone, but as we can see from the obituary she was a devoted christian and she never married, I would think she suffered deeply inside all her loses and probably moarned her family for all her life.Roberta's older brothers are also buried in the same cemetery as her father. While it may have been a standard tombstone at one time for this memorial park in California, I found the design on the tombstones of her father and brothers (as well as on a tombstone of a paternal uncle who died much later) of a boat sailing for heaven interesting, given how they died. Her brothers' tombstone (and the uncle's) also include one line of the British poet Tennyson's poem ''Crossing the Bar'' which continues the same theme. It was popular in Victorian times- her mother, although born in 1924, seems to have been familiar with it and presumably liked it since it is on the tombstone of both of her sons. Just some thoughts that came to mind when I saw the tombstones of Roberta's brothers- Thomas G W Seyfert (1948-1958) - Find a Grave.... I find poetry and cemeteries interesting as well as true crime cases. Roberta's mother seems to have recovered well from the tragedies that happened to her and been a resilient person, judging from her obit. It not only doesn't mention Roberta ( for whatever reason), but neither does it mention her sons. Whether what happened to Roberta was another great tragedy for her( Roberta disappearing suddenly), or if her mother didn't have a great relationship with her and she just assumed Roberta was out there living her life or hoped that, would be interesting to know.
Yes and it is also bothers me that there was a second girl, Ramsey County Jane Doe 1977, who was also not identified at that time! They were the same age and we found in just a year apartVery true. It should be interesting reading more about Roberta and her case. It's too bad everything did not get connected much sooner, as she lived nearby, and wasn't from out of state.