hollyblue
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I totally understand your statistical point and letting kids live a good life. My husband and I were just discussing this earlier. He grew up in Iowa where a newspaper boy went missing in the 70's and horrified everyone. It did not limit their lifestyle though. I grew up in the Bay Area of CA and remember vividly Polly Klaas. I just realized today that it never ends. All kinds of vigilant parents end up with missing kids.
However, the statistics don't matter when we are talking about an actual, countable, memorable, innocent child, like BreeAnn. More vigilance cannot hurt, but will it help? Who knows. It would help if creepy people who don't care about kids would disappear.
eta, not more vigilance on Breeann's parents part, I mean on my part. We have let my 3 y/o ride bikes with our 5 and 8 year old neighbors, but today I realize that is not good enough
I don't know what the answer is....times have certainly changed since I was kid when everyone looked out for everyone else. Seems this neighborhood was like that and the perfect place to raise kids, and neighbors did keep an eye on the them. Best thing would be for the kids to always be in group or have a buddy. Not the distraction of a cell phone buddy either. If one loses their sense of stranger danger the others are there. Another reason is because it doesn't get reported...whether relative, teacher, coach, etc. That needs to stop. There is respect for authority, but that respect should be mutual for the child also. The child should be taught that!! I was approached at 16 by some 40 yr old boss ...... I went home and told. Back then, they didn't report such things to the police unless an assault took place, but I knew my parents would go pay him a visit...because what he said made me feel creepy, disrespected and was wrong. JMO