Billylee,
I just asked Cynthia's daughter on Thursday and she still has not heard anything... seems to me like LE is dragging their feet with these dentals!!
My sentiments exactly.
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Billylee,
I just asked Cynthia's daughter on Thursday and she still has not heard anything... seems to me like LE is dragging their feet with these dentals!!
If it were me, I would contact my local congressman or representative and explain that help is needed now. And maybe contact the local papers, and write a detailed letter to the editor. I'd also call my radio stations and beg them for help. (Wow, I'm really getting steamed over this. I'm having to edit alot of expletives...) this is, of course, jmo.
Perhaps someone else here could contact the agency who is supposed to be doing a comparison and gently remind them this was turned in as a possible and that an update in the process would be greatly appreciated? Families don't let LE drag their feet if a possible has been found. (mo)
ETA: maybe it's time to connect with the family again (their website)? Something is definately not right here. Family would at least recognize a "possible" photo match. Is everyone on the same page? KWIM?
Is her daughter the family member posting here by the name of Hopefulforsure?Mensch,
I am in weekly contact with Cynthia's daughter. They are waiting to start DNA comparison soon are waiting for dentals. I know they are in constant contact with LE, I am thinking they lost either Cynthia's dentals or the UID's. I know the LE they are dealing with now is making headway, just not fast enough.
I know they have contacted the media before, but they are also waiting to see if this is a positive ID to move forward...
Like I have said, I am in contact with her daughter regularly and I don't want to step on her toes. She is very gracious lady and she is waiting for the DNA if the dentals don't pan out. (as in being able to obtain either set)
Is her daughter the family member posting here by the name of Hopefulforsure?
There were two posts made - basically two posts of same message. I doubt any family member would consider it "stepping on toes" to offer help in expediting the process?
How does someone say: they THINK possibly the dentals were lost? and not want intervention? Who is saying this? The family? Either they are or aren't and this is since the statement they were 'waiting' the check them? Now because of the long time frame, they "may be lost"?
None of this makes sense. How do you know the daughter? By their web page? Just trying to figure out why this case is so convoluted and secretive. Something is very wrong with this whole possible match thing. The family clearly needs an advocate....
It really could be taking that much time to try to locate the dental records.
If the dentist who did the work has retired, it can be difficult to track down the records. If the practice is sold to a new dentist, maybe they kept the old records. If the dentist's office has moved, records can be misplaced or lost. Or maybe they're stored in a rental unit somewhere, or the dentist's basement in an Arizona retirement community, or the dentist's granddaughter's attic. I know of cases where all of these have happened -- and that's to current people needing dental treatment.
The dentist I went to growing up developed Alzheimer's and was eventually forced to retire. Many files were lost. His records were boxed up and stored somewhere and are available, but they're such chaos that somebody would have to go through every box one file at a time to find something. It would take weeks for a full-time person and they wouldn't know until they finished whether that particular person's was lost.
Thanks carbuff, I am just letting everyone know what Cynthia's daughter has been telling me, not trying to be secretive!!!
Mensch,
... (snip)
I know the family is very sad that this is probably their mom. Yes they need closure, but at the same time, they don't want to face reality that this probably is her.
Her daughter has worked very hard over the years looking for her and has been in contact with many people about her mom missing, she is just waiting for the positive ID to make a story about it. Which many of us have told her she should.
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Of course, this makes perfect sense. Once the family is involved, everyone (and I'm pointing the finger at myself here) needs to take a step back and respect how they want things to come to an end. If they are willing to wait it out, all we can do is give them emotional support. They have plenty on their plates as it is.
Anyone who has ever been through really difficult circumstances knows what their breaking point is. For them, pushing hard on LE just might be too much to bear.
I'll continue to keep them in my prayers.
However, I would like to know what the hold up is on the dentals, because it sounds to me like they are having trouble getting the JD's dentals, not Cynthia's. (JMO, based on what I've read.) There was also something about the body being misplaced or something and all this confusion of the handling of the JD just makes me wonder what's up with that.
I would like to know too Billylee, I just don't want to sound pushy when I email to her. I did send her an email yesterday, but I haven't heard back.
Maybe Cynthia's family is also kind of keeping things close to their belt because if this is her, it will probably turn into a homicide investigation.... just a thought.
I would like to know too Billylee, I just don't want to sound pushy when I email to her. I did send her an email yesterday, but I haven't heard back.
Maybe Cynthia's family is also kind of keeping things close to their belt because if this is her, it will probably turn into a homicide investigation.... just a thought.