Nancy Cooper, 34, of Cary, N.C. #10

[d99gr81]

Think of it this way. Since they don't know and no evidence has been made public that would indicate him. The fear of not knowing. Would you want to be the judge that allowed him to have his kids if he did do something to them? I don't read much into this other than people are scared of the unknown. Its been that way for ever.

 

[Fuquaylj]

Think of it this way. Since they don't know and no evidence has been made public that would indicate him. The fear of not knowing. Would you want to be the judge that allowed him to have his kids if he did do something to them? I don't read much into this other than people are scared of the unknown. Its been that way for ever.

A CYA type of thing - better safe than sorry.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I am delighted that Nancy's family gets to keep the children!! Best interest of the children is exactly what the Judge went by and I say he was 100% correct in his decision. They are where they belong.

 

[SeriouslySearching]

I'll ask for a little salt for my words.

fran

I have found words go better with a dash of hot sauce.

 

[fran]

I don't know .. a few years back someone I was VERY close to was what I considered to be an abusive relationship ... I considered the husband to be a VERY controlling jerk ... we were VERY close ... saw each other EVERY day ... he would walk out when I came in the room ... was generally a jerk and everything she told me I could see ... she claimed he never hit her - but told of things that were mental abuse. A few years later my job kept me from seeing her as often ... tho' I'd get occasional updates ... things were the same from her perspective... THEN she left him ... I thought GOOD things are finally settled ... it was after this we got to know HIM better .. he actually apologized ... and spoke of the "abuse" ... it turned out SHE was just as guilty as he in their mental abuse .. SHE abandoned her son .. just left him there with this "abuser" to go live with another man ... The husband now is the most gentle, sharing man you'd ever want to meet .. the son is MUCH better adjusted then when his mother was around. I learned that things are NEVER as they seem. I've seen her a few times since ... she's no different ... The whole situation was so sad because SHE cannot get out of her cycle ... it took her leaving for her husband to get the help .. mostly because he realized had to "step it up" to care for his son.

SO now I try to realize that things are NOT as they seem .. even if you are there everyday.

You have a valid point here. OBVIOUSLY, one of the Coopers is lying. Should we ask Brad? or should we ask Nancy?

wait...............

Nancy Cooper was MURDERED.

So,.........what do you think?

JMHO
fran

 

[fran]

I have found words go better with a dash of hot sauce.

Wellllll...........I'm not so sure I'm going to need either, the way things are lookin' right about now.

I think old Brad better work on his coping skills with strangers.

Who knows? He may be meeting a lot of them pretty soon.:behindbar

Just sayin'
fran

 

[d99gr81]

I am delighted that Nancy's family gets to keep the children!! Best interest of the children is exactly what the Judge went by and I say he was 100% correct in his decision. They are where they belong.

With all due respect to you. You have spoke like this since day one. I hope for the girls sake he did not do this. After everything I have read over the week I can see him being innocent...not saying he is but I can see him being innocent so I stay open minded. Say he is proven innocent and many of the stories from Nancy's friends were exaggeration's...and I know all about those types. He can not get this time back with his girls. A time where if he IS innocent he really should have had. Again I know you are definitely passionate about your statements I just think you base them on past history of these type of cases and that he is the husband/ a man ...verse any actual hard evidence.

 

[fran]

In case anyone wants to see it.

http://www.wral.com/news/local/story/3280910/


Raleigh, N.C. — Brad Cooper and the family of his slain wife have reached an agreement regarding temporary custody of their two children.

The two sides met in the judge's chamber for about 75 minutes before reaching the decision, which keeps the children in the care of their grandparents and aunt in Canada for 75 days. The hearing was continued until Oct. 13.

 

[d99gr81]

In case anyone wants to see it.

http://www.wral.com/news/local/story/3280910/


Raleigh, N.C. — Brad Cooper and the family of his slain wife have reached an agreement regarding temporary custody of their two children.

The two sides met in the judge's chamber for about 75 minutes before reaching the decision, which keeps the children in the care of their grandparents and aunt in Canada for 75 days. The hearing was continued until Oct. 13.

Hey, I had that info and much more before Of course I have a co-worker dating a WRAL reported in the room if you haven't seen my earlier post i spelled out the actual terms of it as well.

 

[Jade]

Is there a link to where it has been confirmed Nancy’s death was a homicide?

I read the affidavits for Nancy and I am just astounded that she continued to try to have a baby after she had so many miscarriages and had to take a taxi to the hospital since Brad allegedly had so little interest in her welfare. Why in the world would you want to try repeatedly to bring another child into that relationship if she was so miserable?

This all leads me to believe that …. well, are we sure Nancy didn’t do something to
herself?

 

[d99gr81]

Is there a link to where it has been confirmed Nancy’s death was a homicide?

I read the affidavits for Nancy and I am just astounded that she continued to try to have a baby after she had so many miscarriages and had to take a taxi to the hospital since Brad allegedly had so little interest in her welfare. Why in the world would you want to try repeatedly to bring another child into that relationship if she was so miserable?

This all leads me to believe that …. well, are we sure Nancy didn’t do something to
herself?

That is a good point.

 

[d99gr81]

have a nice weekend everyone. I am out of here.

 

[fran]

Hey, I had that info and much more before Of course I have a co-worker dating a WRAL reported in the room if you haven't seen my earlier post i spelled out the actual terms of it as well.

Oh, I know you did, and I thanked you too!
LOL, course you know some people want to see it in legitimate media print before they'll believe it.

Oh, and thanks again for the UP TO THE MINUTE news!


fran

 

[fran]

have a nice weekend everyone. I am out of here.

bye, have a great weekend

fran

 

[fran]

Is there a link to where it has been confirmed Nancy’s death was a homicide?

I read the affidavits for Nancy and I am just astounded that she continued to try to have a baby after she had so many miscarriages and had to take a taxi to the hospital since Brad allegedly had so little interest in her welfare. Why in the world would you want to try repeatedly to bring another child into that relationship if she was so miserable?

This all leads me to believe that …. well, are we sure Nancy didn’t do something to
herself?

Hope this helps.

Nancy did not do something to herself.



fran

http://www.wral.com/news/local/story/3207944/

The search for our Nancy is over," Cary police Chief Pat Bazemore said at a news conference Tuesday evening, accompanied by Cooper's parents, twin sister, brother-in-law and brother. "Nancy was murdered, and our investigation is now a homicide."

 

[stillblv]

It was a public hearing.

But there was no testimony given. The agreement between Brad and Nancy's family happened before court today. So we obviously do not know everything. Maybe Brad didn't want certain things to come out in court today so he agreed to it...don't know.

 

[Jade]

Forgive me, I'm a little behind. But wanted to comment on the $200 designer jeans and $200 pedi. Which does seem high even in the best of spa's. Anyway, who's to say this was for Nancy?
The affidavit even mentioned that Brad had a tendency to spend lavishly on is girlfriends.
I'm inclined to think that Brad was spending the money on another woman especially since she was not able to use the CC's.
If she had access to them, she'd be using them for groceries and gas.
You never see her decked out, she's always dressed sporty as others have mentioned.
Hardly the high fashion and jewelery shopaholic Brad mentions.

Hi Mom2boys.
I bolded the part I wanted to reply to in your post.

Have you all seen how expensive that sporty stuff can be?!

Those running clothes are like $75.00 + for the little halter-tops. Tiny little scraps of cloth for running shorts & t-shirts are $100.00+ because of all that wicking/ special materials.

I went in a local outdoor shop thinking I might buy an item or two for my daughter and I almost fell over. This is not a swanky place at all in fact I thought it was a little bit hippy kids. Patagonia, Columbia were a couple of the brands.

Maybe it was a spa pedi?

 

[Chanler]

A question for the house: Is Bradley known to have an eruptive temper? I haven't read through everything here, much less elsewhere, but what I've seen suggests that he has difficulty with human relations. Of course, that covers a wide spectrum of behavior, from quiet reclusiveness to active misanthropy.

 

[Jade]

Hope this helps.

Nancy did not do something to herself.



fran

http://www.wral.com/news/local/story/3207944/

The search for our Nancy is over," Cary police Chief Pat Bazemore said at a news conference Tuesday evening, accompanied by Cooper's parents, twin sister, brother-in-law and brother. "Nancy was murdered, and our investigation is now a homicide."

Thank you.

Sorry to bring that up.

 

[raisincharlie]

But there was no testimony given. The agreement between Brad and Nancy's family happened before court today. So we obviously do not know everything. Maybe Brad didn't want certain things to come out in court today so he agreed to it...don't know.

You are right, the reports indicate the matter was resolved in Judge's chambers - public hearing or not - no one but them heard it.

Somehow I did not think there would be anyone on the witness stand today. Have to wonder if that subpeona to Interact had something to do with the meeting being conducted in Judge's chambers. I think it is possible.