lorann
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mom3dd said:I think that safe haven is not annoymus I remember a woman dropped off a newborn at a ?firestation and it was all over the news they were looking for the mother. That would intimadate me.
I remember reading about that - you have to hand the baby to someone and tell them you just can't take care of it. That would keep many from doing just that, fear of being found out and punished. If a mother could leave a baby inside somewhere safe and then call a number and have the baby immediately picked up, maybe, just maybe, more would be found alive. I know a man who would be 65 years old now who was dubbed Baby in the Bulrushes - deserted at some one's door as a new baby. He was later adopted by these same people and had a very good life. His theory was this couple were supposed to be his parents, it just took a little doing for them to get together.