Brightbird
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In the recent Casey interview, I find it interesting that she says Carolyn is the key to Erica's disappearance. I think there may be a grain of truth to that. But it's in Casey's head and nothing Carolyn did. I try to refrain from armchair psychology so this is very tentative speculation.
I think when Erica and Carolyn met for the first time, Erica got tangible proof that the Parsons weren't her only family. If Erica had been abused by Casey for years, she might have seen this an opportunity to get away from the Parsons. Maybe Erica started talking about getting to know Carolyn and the Goodman family more. Erica was at that age when children want independence from their family and Carolyn and the Goodmans probably seemed like a good opportunity. I bet this would have worried Casey because word could spread about how she treated Erica. Being exposed would have terrified Casey. She probably worried about losing the welfare cheques. And Casey probably thought Erica was being selfish and ungrateful, because Casey would never herself as the problem.
I suspect Casey is the type who needs control over her family. Carolyn coming onto the scene could have threatened Casey's authority. I don't think Casey would have liked competing with Carolyn for Erica. I think this is why Casey sent FB messages impersonating Erica telling Carolyn to leave her alone. I found those messages really strange trying to paint the picture of a close bond between Casey and Erica. As tensions grew over 2011, I suspect Casey did something to make Erica disappear. Making Erica disappear would maintain the status quo and Casey's position of authority and control. Narcissist's thrive on narcissistic supply, and I think Carolyn and Erica were becoming a threat to this.
So I think Casey is trying to shift the blame onto Carolyn because in Casey's mind, it was Carolyn who started all this and it's her fault. A narcissist will always blame someone else to justify their actions.
I think when Erica and Carolyn met for the first time, Erica got tangible proof that the Parsons weren't her only family. If Erica had been abused by Casey for years, she might have seen this an opportunity to get away from the Parsons. Maybe Erica started talking about getting to know Carolyn and the Goodman family more. Erica was at that age when children want independence from their family and Carolyn and the Goodmans probably seemed like a good opportunity. I bet this would have worried Casey because word could spread about how she treated Erica. Being exposed would have terrified Casey. She probably worried about losing the welfare cheques. And Casey probably thought Erica was being selfish and ungrateful, because Casey would never herself as the problem.
I suspect Casey is the type who needs control over her family. Carolyn coming onto the scene could have threatened Casey's authority. I don't think Casey would have liked competing with Carolyn for Erica. I think this is why Casey sent FB messages impersonating Erica telling Carolyn to leave her alone. I found those messages really strange trying to paint the picture of a close bond between Casey and Erica. As tensions grew over 2011, I suspect Casey did something to make Erica disappear. Making Erica disappear would maintain the status quo and Casey's position of authority and control. Narcissist's thrive on narcissistic supply, and I think Carolyn and Erica were becoming a threat to this.
So I think Casey is trying to shift the blame onto Carolyn because in Casey's mind, it was Carolyn who started all this and it's her fault. A narcissist will always blame someone else to justify their actions.