stormymama
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Just another chiming in having trouble buying the story.
Looks like he was previously married to a former student who attended the same bible college.
http://www.bgdailynews.com/communit...cle_8e44fc45-d544-5273-9164-56ab4d756264.html
Looks like he was previously married to a former student who attended the same bible college.
http://www.bgdailynews.com/communit...cle_8e44fc45-d544-5273-9164-56ab4d756264.html
Not sure where I am here (and I haven't listened to the 911 yet, so perhaps that would alter my thinking.)
It isn't unusual in some denominations for ministers to be bi-vocational (have a different day job). In our denomination this doesn't really happen much because of the way our call system works, but in some others it is pretty routine, so that doesn't set off any alarm bells for me.
His story seems far-fetched, and on top of that it is just natural to look at the spouse in cases of suspicious or violent death. A few other things concern me, so while I can say I'm on the fence, I might just be hanging there upside down from my shoelaces
I know of a real-life local case with some similarities, which is what give me some pause. A kid from my hometown killed his mother a few years ago after ingesting some synthetic high sold at the local convenience store. His mother had actually called the police when he came home high because he was not making any sense and she thought he was a danger to himself - but they'd had no argument or anything and she seemingly had no concerns at all for her own physical safety. While waiting for police and paramedics to arrive she went upstairs to check on him and he stabbed her to death. He has no memory of doing it though, and after being stabilized at the hospital he was distraught because he loved his mother. But he's still in jail for murder, which is probably what is important to this case. I think to the law here it was equivalent to getting blackout drunk and then getting behind the wheel of the car. Substance use/overuse is not an affirmative defense.
https://www.theknot.com/us/lauren-hugelmaier-and-matt-phelps-nov-2016
The couple has a page on The Knot website outlining their background and courtship. Lots of pics with her looking adoringly at him and him grinning at the camera. I see complete narcissist!
well according to the 911 call, he awoke to find himself covered in dried blood. so his claim at least would be that he took too much medicine, woke up and stabbed his wife, got back into bed, slept, woke up later and found what he had done. Anyway my point is, he could have been "freaking out on cold meds" hours earlier but by the time of the call was in a different state.
Wanna bet his computer cache is cleared and/or their computer (if they had one) is missing? I don't know if one can wipe out data from smart phone internet searches or not. Or maybe he was sly enough to go to a library to use public computers to search about cold medicine incidents and side effects.
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Did that wedding actually go ahead do you know?I will be interested to see what his ex-wife may say about him. Hmmmmmm
I'm so sorry about your personal experience. I agree with you and I can't imagine not trying to help my loved one. The 911 call was chilling in that regard. The operator tried every possible way to get him to check to see if Lauren was breathing. He wouldn't do it. I have to wonder if his tears near the end of the call were because he realized his story wasn't going to hold up as well as he thought it would.
https://www.theknot.com/us/lauren-hugelmaier-and-matt-phelps-nov-2016
The couple has a page on The Knot website outlining their background and courtship. Lots of pics with her looking adoringly at him and him grinning at the camera. I see complete narcissist!
Looks like he was previously married to a former student who attended the same bible college.
http://www.bgdailynews.com/communit...cle_8e44fc45-d544-5273-9164-56ab4d756264.html
https://www.theknot.com/us/lauren-hugelmaier-and-matt-phelps-nov-2016
The couple has a page on The Knot website outlining their background and courtship. Lots of pics with her looking adoringly at him and him grinning at the camera. I see complete narcissist!