I pray that you didn't think my comment was directed towards any loving parent who has an autistic child- no, no, no, that is not what I meant at all, and I am so very very sorry if you took it that way! I was thinking about little Joe, who's father admitted to killing him and his body hasn't been found because he won't tell where little Joe is, and little DanielTheriot, who was beaten to death by the mother's boyfriend for not listening or behaving. This was never directed at any of the wonderful parents of autistic children who take great care of their darlings and love them with all of their hearts and souls. I have several family members and friends that know of your daily struggles far better than I do, and I commend all of you loving and caring parents for facing these daily challenges, often without help. I've stated on this board several times that parents with autistic children need help and support from the community and medical profession.