NC - Man found in car with toddler and naked preteen girl

[lizzybeth]

The article says that he lived with a relative of the 12 year old and 2 year old. Is it mom or grandmom that let this sick piece of poo be alone with the kids?

 

[SleuthyMama]

I believe in one of the earlier links at the beginning of the thread it was stated it is the grandmother, lizzybeth.

 

[Skittles]

$225,000.00 bond, Scandi. They probably put it too high for this to make bail. I noticed they haven't charged him with other things which could come after they examine the girl and the toddler, imo. I expect the bond to be raised with any additional charges.

One news source said $25K, and the other two said $225K, so I'm going with the $225K for now.

 

[PoppyH]

The The News and Observer report has more details. I can't even comment. His next court appearance is July 14th. I'll mark it on my calendar:

http://www.newsobserver.com/news/story/1583981.html

Why waste the courts time and taxpayer money, just lock him up and throw away the key, he done, stick a fork in him, he was caught redhanded with a naked child, how much more do they need to put him away for life?? Just makes me sick.........

 

[lonetraveler]

:furious:
I want to know all kinds of things: 1. Why did this piece of scum have these two children. 2. Why did grandma allow them to be with him 3. Does she know that he is a sexual predator? 4. Where is the mother?

I'm so sick of hearing about women who allow their children and grandchildren be molested by scum of the earth like this and many others. If the women are charged with the crime as well maybe we will be hearing less of this kind of sickness.

 

[Vegas Bride]

I'm wondering if he has had any charges prior to this, how long has the grandmother known him and allowed him full access to these children? Those poor kids, is there anybody in their lives who seems to give a damn!

VB

 

[nanny1]

Oh my god when does it end. We need to lock these losers up with a chocolate key and eat it. When is something going to be done with these child molesters. These guys are multipling. Can't we put them all on an island somewhere and let them destroy each other !!! I don't care if it is considered inhumane,What about these poor innocent kids ???

 

[Skittles]

The search warrant: see probable cause items 6-13:

http://www.wral.com/asset/news/news_briefs/2009/06/26/5444728/20090626113359371.pdf

 

[Trino]

:furious:
I want to know all kinds of things: 1. Why did this piece of scum have these two children. 2. Why did grandma allow them to be with him 3. Does she know that he is a sexual predator? 4. Where is the mother?

I'm so sick of hearing about women who allow their children and grandchildren be molested by scum of the earth like this and many others. If the women are charged with the crime as well maybe we will be hearing less of this kind of sickness.

I have no info to verify this, but my guess is that mom was at work supporting the bum???

 

[Openmind]

I have no info to verify this, but my guess is that mom was at work supporting the bum???

Probably -- first clue your live-in might be up to no good is you work and he is oh so happy to watch the kids alone. Do people ever ask their children what happens during the day? Do they reassure their children that if anything -- and I mean anything -- happens that makes them uncomfortable, or fearful, or hurts they must tell them immediately. Absolutely no secrets -- none, nada, never ever.

Trust is earned not blindly given.

In the end, I bet the person that feels the most guilt for all this is the twevle year old. Kids have a heartbreaking way of absorbing blame for events over which they had no control.

 

[VespaElf]

:furious:
I want to know all kinds of things: 1. Why did this piece of scum have these two children. 2. Why did grandma allow them to be with him 3. Does she know that he is a sexual predator? 4. Where is the mother?

I'm so sick of hearing about women who allow their children and grandchildren be molested by scum of the earth like this and many others. If the women are charged with the crime as well maybe we will be hearing less of this kind of sickness.

Clearly Mom lost custody for a reason......shes either on drugs or a total p.o.s or both NOW how did Mom get that way? Time & time again we see these cycles.......Granma to Mom to kids.9 times out of 10 the Mom didnt just wake up one day from a secure & loving family & get hooked on drugs.
Just like cycle of poverty theres cycles of drugs & abuse as well(think of Haleigh & Nevaeh to name a few)

I'll give Granma benefit of the doubt that she didnt know he was a predator HOWEVER she has really,really REALLY crappy judgement(& Im probably being too kind)

When will CPS/DYFS etc etc wake up & realize just because someone is a "family member"it doesnt mean the kids should stay "in that family"!!!!!!!!!!

 

[gitana1]

Probably -- first clue your live-in might be up to no good is you work and he is oh so happy to watch the kids alone. Do people ever ask their children what happens during the day? Do they reassure their children that if anything -- and I mean anything -- happens that makes them uncomfortable, or fearful, or hurts they must tell them immediately. Absolutely no secrets -- none, nada, never ever.

Trust is earned not blindly given.

In the end, I bet the person that feels the most guilt for all this is the twevle year old. Kids have a heartbreaking way of absorbing blame for events over which they had no control.

A friend of mine was on a bus recently. She overheard a conversation a young woman with a couple small kids was having. She looked to be about 20 years old. She was talking with someone on the bus about a guy she had met. "Oh, he's really nice. He said he'd help me out, take care of me. He even said he'd be happy to babysit while I go out and stuff." My friend wanted to say something to this young woman but before she processed what she was going to say, the girl got off the bus. I was horrified to hear about it. I really wish someone had managed to warn this woman. She was young, appeared low-income and was likely overwhelmed. That's how it happens. Uneducated parents with income issues, single moms, perhaps drug, alcohol or mental issues, and a hardcore lack of parenting skills.
I really don't understand why parenting classes aren't mandatory in high school for both sexes. It could be part of the health requirement.
In this case, I can bet dad(s) either abandoned the kids or is in prison, and mom has drugs problems and/or had the kids taken away by the state.
Grandma is probably little better and like many we see, was over the moon to find a man who would take her and showed an interest in her grandkids.
How this keeps happening despite all we see in the news is beyond me. These people might as well offer up their kids on a silver platter to the nearest NAMBLA headquarters. When are they going to learn?
Those who are responsible for the care of children should not allow any love interest around the children, period. Wanna' date? Fine, do it on your own time. At the least, the kids should never be left alone with the new guy and at the very least, parents should be highly, highly suspicious about any unrelated person who shows a lot of interest in one's children and/or wants to be alone with the kids.
I am so sick and tired of the stupidity, ignorance and laziness of people who are entrusted with such precious gifts. In every one of these cases, the parents/guardians responsible for these kids should be charged with child endangerment/neglect and jailed. But for the irresponsibility of this little girl's parents and grandma, this would not have happened.