If you go back and read the post you responded to, I believe most of your questions have already been answered.
As for 5 years being enough? I don't think the poster ever said that, intended the meaning of that at all. Of course 5 years is not enough. That question doesn't even make sense.
NO they were not "answered" since the post glossed over that
quote >>>"What if BL and the aunt never visited this trailer there are so many possibilities in this case that I dont want to speculate anymore. What I am certain about is that Shaniya lived 5 happy healthy years-her pictures....they just beam with joy. She was loved and cared for. How many Fathers do any of you know who raise kids from a one night stand?? I know I don't. Of course we all want to sit here and say he shouldn't have allowed her to go, he should have known-well forgive him for not having a crystal ball like the rest of us do right?"
to me that is nonsense....of course they should have checked out the trailer and living conditions and the people in it
wouldn't you do the same for boarding a pet??
loved and cared for and sent off with an overnight bag into a crack den?? with felons and an HIV positive new "daddy"?? Let's get real here
5 happy healthy years>> then adios kid, welcome to h//ll??
Crystal Ball?? It seems to suggest that parents and caregivers are OK if they just send their kids off into any situation without checking it out
Following that line of thinking...other crackheads at Sleepy Hollow can set up a "summer camp" and/or an "Birthday Party" venue...and if suburban parents send their kids there without checking it out, then I guess that is ok right??
If something bad happens..."they didn't have a crystal ball"
Really I know for a fact I have spent more time checking out pet hotels/boarding situations/pet sitters...sorry but this is JMO