k4kathy
k4kathy
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I'll go back and take a look at some of Mom's actions, a little later on tonight, once I get my little one to sleep. My babygirl and I both have terrible sore throats; I don't know why but I can't seem to soothe her tonight Looks like we will be taking a trip to the Dr. tomorrow!
I did watch the "human shield" video though. It is quite unusual; many times people "cover" themselves because of shame or embarassment. I don't know whether she is blaming herself for the death of dear Celina, because she feels she failed to protect her child by simply not knowing what was happening. This would be natural. Think about Columbine and 9/11- how many parents said, "if only I let my child stay home that day" or "if only I asked my wife/husband/child to stay home from work for whatever reason." I'm also wondering if the "shield" was even her idea. I can imagine that her "friends" or the people in the town may have said "we have to rally around her and protect her from the cameras, she shouldn't have to be seen like this" or something to that effect. The fact that she was reported to become completely inconsolable and could not speak/call 911 upon returning home leads me to believe she either saw something or "felt" something was very wrong. Maybe she's an emotionally fragile woman in all aspects of life or maybe the mere thought of something happening to her daughter incapacitated her. I can't even allow myself to think of something bad happening to my own little sweetpea; my soul would just shatter.
Anyway, I'll take a more in depth look at some more videos of her later after things calm down over here!
ETA: I received information from one of our lovely moderators (who could not have been any nicer!) about the "verified professional" option and did not realize in a few of my previous posts, I should have included links, as I am not a WS verified psychologist. In future posts I will provide links to back up my statements, until I decide whether or not to pursue this option. Sorry to all for inadvertently breaking this rule, I'm still learning!
No apology needed here, I love reading your informative posts!