About 2 dozen people do this every year. Sadly, many of the bodies are never found and those that are can take weeks or months to surface. The area downstream of the falls is very steep, in many places vertical, and mostly wooded so its difficult to search.I hope dog teams are able to continue their assist in the recovery of this poor girl.
This is a tragic time for those who love Saniyya Dennis. IMO
I agree with you - it is nobody's fault. I still can't help but wish that someone on that day had called Saniyya's parents. No guarantee it would have made any difference or that they could have gotten up there in time, but my close friend has a son, whose girlfriend called to tell them that she got texts like those from Saniayya. The parents drove up to college and brought him home - he dropped out of college, got treatment and a year later went back. It was a long and bumpy road, but he is doing really well now. I'm going to talk to my own kids this weekend and tell them - if someone ever makes comments about harming themselves, please tell someone - us or their own parents. Teens hate to get parents involved, they feel an unnatural sense of "protecting privacy." But I'm still going to try.Sincere condolences to her family and friends.
I do hope her friends and boyfriend know this is absolutely no one's fault.
My heart goes out to her family.
The DA said at the press conference that, according to the friend she talked to for hours, Saniyya had a prior mental health issue. I wonder if her family was even aware of it (they denied it at their earlier presser). It's very sad that she couldn't get proper help this time around.I agree with you - it is nobody's fault. I still can't help but wish that someone on that day had called Saniyya's parents. No guarantee it would have made any difference or that they could have gotten up there in time, but my close friend has a son, whose girlfriend called to tell them that she got texts like those from Saniayya. The parents drove up to college and brought him home - he dropped out of college, got treatment and a year later went back. It was a long and bumpy road, but he is doing really well now. I'm going to talk to my own kids this weekend and tell them - if someone ever makes comments about harming themselves, please tell someone - us or their own parents. Teens hate to get parents involved, they feel an unnatural sense of "protecting privacy." But I'm still going to try.
Poor Saniyya. Poor, poor parents. Poor friends/boyfriend who talked to her and have to live with that. It has been a hard and isolating time for so many young people.
Since she lives in a dorm, I wonder if her roommate/suitemates spoke to her about going out at 11:00PM. I realize that college students who live in residence halls have much more freedom than when I lived in the dorm in the late 60s. No one would have been allowed to leave the dorm alone that late at night. Outside doors were locked at 11:00PM on weeknights, 1:00AM on Friday and Saturday, and midnight on Sunday. Residents didn't have keys to outside doors, so if you were late getting back to the dorm, you had to get an RA to let you in. You were "campused" for a day or two and could only leave the dorm for classes. I would have been very concerned if my roommate or suitemates wanted to go out alone that late at night. I wouldn't want anyone from her dorm to feel responsible for Saniyya's disappearance, but I hope anyone who interacted with her in the dorm that night has spoken to LE and family members about her demeanor.
I don't think college has been that way for a very long time, at least not public Universities. I remember our dorms being locked, but you were free to come and go anytime with your keys. As it should be, as you're an adult, IMO.
I don't think college has been that way for a very long time, at least not public Universities. I remember our dorms being locked, but you were free to come and go anytime with your keys. As it should be, as you're an adult, IMO.
I believe Saniyya's family is simply holding on to hope because there is no body. I hope that LE is able give her family definitive closure soon. My heart goes out to her family.![]()
A 5000+ word response to DA's announcement, called "National press release" and allegedly put together in cooperation with Saniyya's family, was just posted on SM. Purportedly it was sent to all news outlets. We'll see if it gets published.
My observation: The person/organization that wrote it has been spreading misinformation on SM about this case for days, disregarding/contradicting known facts.