NY NY - Sylvia Lwowski, 22, Staten Island, 6 Sept 1975 - #4

[rosemadderlake]

Bumping for our girl. I know I have loved everything I have learned about Sylvia Lwowski. She is loved, and missed, and we need to find her!

 

[Jmoose]

I would love it if there was a resolution to Sylvia's disappearance; stranger things have happened, as we have seen here.

 

[rosemadderlake]

Bumping for Sylvia Lwowski -

xoxo

 

[rosemadderlake]

Lol at myself - for too many words! -Edited out in previous post...

But here's the thing - Sylvia is on my list, she comes up every day on my open WS page for her,

How about those who knew her or about her consider speaking up?
We are here for almost four years, now,

Holding vigil for Sylvia Lwowaki.
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[bessie]

I was thinking of Sylvia just today. I'm glad you bumped the thread, rose. There's still hope. It's never too late. I love the vigil idea.

 

[rosemadderlake]

xoxo Bessie! Thank you!
Yes, there is always hope - never give up.
-As we see in the news every day - some amazing outcomes, search for one, find three...
Hope to find her, hope to see
Where are you Sylvia Lwowski?

 

[Jmoose]

Thanks for "bumping", Rose-I think of Sylvia, and check in here, every day. Why can't the people who know, and love her, do the same?

 

[rosemadderlake]

For Sylvia Lwowski ((((Bumping again)))) for Sylvia Lwowski

 

[rosemadderlake]

Bumping again for Sylvia Alice Lwowski - where are you sweetheart?

 

[Jmoose]

Bumping Sylvia's page-where are you?

 

[Jmoose]

Circling back to the private investigator aspect of this case-If everyone was like me and saved every piece of paper that came into the house, Sylvia's brother would have a record of who did the investigation. I wonder if her parents were inclined to go to the first name in the yellow pages, or if the police may have recommended someone (and would that have even been ethical?). I did send an email to Interstate Investigations to see if they may have been the one, but I don't think they'd still have the records

 

[rosemadderlake]

I suspect, and wonder if the findings, if any, were submitted to cold case squad in 2010... especially, if at the time, the PI was focusing on BF/F... And, we can't go there, here, so that's why I don't think much at all was shared....

 

[Dushi]

I rarely come in, but it is heartwarming to see Rose and Jmoose still here.
There is always hope

 

[rosemadderlake]

It's always so nice to see Sylvia's peeps (Dushi) check in!!! Time marches on. While Jmoose and I hold vigil, somehow we're all still here in spirit. And those too who have joined and acknowledged Sylvia along the way.

--We had an amazing and wild run learning about this lovely young woman and her tragic disappearance. I look at her photos and just wonder what on earth happened to this beautiful woman... And we really gave it our all with the information we had. But I know we are missing important information. Maybe someday that rock will get unturned...

Until then, and, I agree there's always hope...

 

[rosemadderlake]

Thanks for "bumping", Rose-I think of Sylvia, and check in here, every day. Why can't the people who know, and love her, do the same?


^^^ bumping for Jmoose's Q ^^^

 

[Jmoose]

Today is Sylvia's birthday-I wonder if we will ever know where she is?

 

[rosemadderlake]

Thinking of EL and how unspeakably sad I feel for her; that she never knew what happened to her daughter before she died...

 

[rosemadderlake]

I used to think it is impossible for Sylvia to be found. Why? Oh hell I don't know... Too gorgeous? Too smart???

--But now, I wonder about her bones, about her remains out to sea... Or in some unintentional place or crypt?--Or burial ground ...

Where are they? Where is she?

I ask rhetorically because I cannot imagine losing her. That her mom died without knowing what happened to her daughter is so unspeakable.

What are we to say, here? I feel your pain?
Why?

 

[Jmoose]

Could she have possibly done this to herself, not meaning to be lost forever? If she committed suicide, I suppose she wasn't worried about the possibility that her family might never find her; I mean it is essentially a selfish act, and yet somehow I think if anything she would want them to find her, as a last act of defiance. Here we are, though, and nobody really knows what happened or where she is. I contacted her brother probably a couple of years ago to ask if he'd been in touch with the people at Hart Island, where Potter's field is-he said he had, but there really isn't any good way to figure out if something happened to her, and as she may have been unidentified, then buried there. I can't imagine losing my daughter and never knowing what happened to her. I guess you are supposed to find that out after you die, in heaven, but I don't believe in that. Maybe that's why I want to find her now-because I hope her brother finally knows

 

[rosemadderlake]

I know, Sylvia's brother is the last hope... The very last hope...
More and more, and more sadly I feel Sylvia's end may have happened in water. And there is a lot of water around where she grew up..
With few exceptions, out to sea would disappear her forever..
Thing is, did she or anyone else have an obsession with the water? -
I say this because I know the woodsy environment I grew up in, like the back of my hand.
What about growing up on the water? She was right down the road.
What about others growing up on the water?
What about knowing how you could end it all in the water?
Did she really go there?
Did someone else go there?
Water is one of the only explanations for her disappearance...