... It's rather hypocritical, IMO, to allow discussion to scapegoat this woman....
RSBM
hypocrite per Merriam-Webster:
hyp·o·crite
noun \ˈhi-pə-ˌkrit\
: a person who claims or pretends to have certain beliefs about what is right but who behaves in a way that disagrees with those beliefs
Full Definition of HYPOCRITE
1
: a person who puts on a false appearance of virtue or religion
2
: a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings
scapegoat per Merriam-Webster:
Full Definition of
SCAPEGOAT
1
: a goat upon whose head are symbolically placed the sins of the people after which he is sent into the wilderness in the biblical ceremony for Yom Kippur
2
a : one that bears the blame for others
b : one that is the object of irrational hostility
Which definition of hypocrite and scapegoat are you referring to?
Please explain.
I feel the same way, K_Z. I always see shades of gray in everything and am surprised at black and white thinking.
Additionally, I don't believe 6 year olds are innocent creatures with no ability to distinguish right from wrong. Again, shades of gray, and although babies are incapable of moral decisions, 6 year olds certainly are capable of knowing not to assault classmates.
I also agree that until there is a charge of a crime here, this discussion doesn't belong on this forum. As I understand it, the grand jury is going to make the decision whether charges are appropriate and then I guess the DA will decide whether to press those charges.
Do tell, what shades of gray did you see in that video? No mistaking/misinterpreting what was on that video.
Also, do you believe a 50+ year old woman, who has taught for YEARS certainly, is capable of knowing not to assault her students?
I just don't get the mindset, the victim is the cause of Barb Williams criminal actions.
IMO, the video absolutely SHOWS a CRIME. Whether she's charged is another thing.
While I understand the references to black and white vs gray thinking, it is always upsetting to me when a victim is discussed in such a manner in which it seems an attempt to shift any part of the blame/responsibility away from the attacker and onto the victim. I think it bothers me around 1000% more if that victim is a small child and the attacker is a person who accepts responsibility for the child (parent, coach ..... teacher).
And just personally, it's not even really the physical assault that has me feeling the teacher is not some innocent, sweet little granny who had one bad reaction in one bad moment that just HAPPENED to be recorded. Which...wow, talk about awful luck and terrible odds. No, it's the words she used to threaten this little boy. Those words are not on the tip of any sweet little granny tongues that I ever knew. Those are hateful, vicious words "I will rip you apart" meant to terrorize and I bet they did the trick.
This is what I can't get past. A six year old. "I will rip you apart". I just don't see the gray area.
BBM
I so agree. "I will rip you apart" WTH says that???