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So sorry I haven't answered this sooner, tarabull; many preoccupations, and attention placed elsewhere than WS for a good while now.
SGS....u seem tarabully bitter.
No, not bitter, lol. (Don't know why I would be 'bitter' at all, at least by my understanding of the word.) A touch irritable, sure, but no more than that.
I know it's hard to detect tone accurately online. I apologize - I should have written more carefully, enough for my tone to be clearer to you. It was more of a 'Tssst! Ughhh, here we go, more elaborate coyness instead of people just speaking their minds straight out...!' than anything else.
Also, as I recall, I had just seen a few weeks' worth of people doing that very thing: being coy and suggestive and vague and not just coming out and saying what they meant, for no reason I could detect.
That predisposed me to a sort of 'last straw' mentality in which I finally broke my annoyed silence and voiced my thoughts. However, only a small percentage of that annoyance was towards you. It was a situation built up mostly by several others, mostly not even on Websleuths at all.
Well, you know how it goes when 15 people do something that bugs you, then you finally say something to the 16th person, and the 'something' may be a bit much in reality because it has the other 15 instances behind it. That's how it was when I wrote my response to you. I hope that's clear now.
YOU take care tho SGS...maybe try some yoga, meditation or hulla hooping...
Well, thank you.
I have found that blowing bubbles is a surprisingly good stress reliever, speaking of hula hooping! (Deep breathing...?) Sometimes the simplest childhood things help us ground and chill out.
The documentary on KM was heartfelt, that's for sure. I was in the back row in a packed theater, but heard many people crying or sniffling by the end. It was also startling in a few ways (esp. the friend who revealed Katelyn had been at a bonfire the night BEFORE she disappeared, but was unhappy and withdrawn).
Even though a bonfire was at the dramatic center of her disappearance night, none of John Carter's friends or family ever mentioned THE OTHER BONFIRE at any point -- an event less than 24 hours before he saw her last.
If there were documents important to her that were to be burned in a fire, why not burn them that night, Friday August 12, 2011? Why send those unburned documents along with JC the next night, and ask him to burn them without her present - even though (according to JC's version of what Katelyn said in text) she wished she could have been there to see them go?
I wonder what to make of all that.