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Umm....have you seen BD?? Sorry but with a strip club full of hot women I seriously doubt they are going to focus on BD, especially having two men with her...not gonna happen.What if he drank a drink that someone else thought was going to be drank by his wife?
What if someone wanted him temporarily out of the way to make a move on the wife?
Those are the only other two theories than robbery I can come up with as I doubt there are crews looking to sexually exploit men at this particular establishment.
What if he drank a drink that someone else thought was going to be drank by his wife?
What if someone wanted him temporarily out of the way to make a move on the wife?
I'm so sorry that happened to you.I know this isn’t directed for me, but I can give my experience. I was drugged by a bartender and brutally assaulted/raped by him and another man. Nobody noticed I was drugged. At first, it just looks like you’re really drunk. I frequented that club often, so it wasn’t unusual for me to be tipsy/drunk there. Best I can figure out, the drug took effect pretty fast. I eventually realized something wasn’t right, but I couldn’t hold my concentration long enough to do anything about it. They said I was slurring my words and not making a lot of sense, but the 2 guys I left with were “taking care of me and taking me home”. (These were 2 “friends”, the bartender & other guy who drugged me and I left with.) I felt safe with them/never thought they’d hurt me. By the time we left, it had been a few hours. I kept setting my drinks down and losing them, but the bartender kept giving me another. I likely only sipped a few drinks of each one. I have little memory of those hours or leaving or arriving at 1 of their apartments. I thought it odd, but I guess I blacked out. I have hideous breakthrough memories. I know I tried to crawl away at one point and they dragged me back by my ankles. Next memory, it was about 7hrs from the 1st drink. I was freaked out because I couldn’t figure out why I was in that apt and in a ton of pain. Somehow, I faked like I was fine and 1 took me home. I was still very confused. I was super nauseous and had a horrid headache. By the time I realized I’d likely been slipped a rape drug, I was terrified. I didn’t tell anyone for several years. I moved immediately to get away. My fears were made true when they bragged about it to a friend. I was horrified. My mind didn’t really clear for over 24hrs after drugged. I just couldn’t think through anything very precisely. I was scared of the men, especially their families. I have no idea how I appeared in the time that’s lost to me. I wish I didn’t have the few memories that I do.
My friend was on a date in another bar years later. His beer was drugged. He knew what happened to me, so he recognized it immediately and they left. Turns out, that club was known for drugging people. The owners had a lot of power in the community, plus mafia connections, so no one would press charges. Most of the rape drugs clear your system really quickly via your kidneys. Unless you go to the ER immediately, the drugs don’t show up. It becomes a he said/she said at that point.
Sorry so lengthy. That’s all JMO and just my experience.
Ebm: spelling
Men can be date raped as well.Returning to a theory - or scenario of events the night TD disappeared, I am wondering, what could be the purpose of drugging the drink of a man? I can only think of robbery as a logical possibility.
The articles mention men as well as women as victims.
I don't think BD was the target. Why drug a woman who's there with two men.What if he drank a drink that someone else thought was going to be drank by his wife?
What if someone wanted him temporarily out of the way to make a move on the wife?
Those are the only other two theories than robbery I can come up with as I doubt there are crews looking to sexually exploit men at this particular establishment.
To me Occam's Razor is nothing but an excuse for people who can't think beyond the most obvious (nothing personal, just my opinion) and should be illegal if it was up to me.I don't buy the drink-drugging theory. There already were plenty of red flags about this case before without assuming someone at the bar drugged his drink. i.e. Occam's Razor
I wish we knew if there's footage that would clarify if they were followed by another car. But then again, how would one know Tyler would walk off by himself, so he could be targeted.Drugging happens to all different people for many different reasons.. sometimes all it takes is being a jerk to a bartender.
It’s a remote possibility in this case, and it would make some sense since he was so confused as he wandered around, but i highly doubt the person who drugged him came back and found him hours later to commit a crime...
I think all options should be considered, even that one.Like perhaps the "friend" who has been buying drinks all night..............?
Thank you to all who have responded to the possible theory of “drugged drinks”
So very sorry for those who have been victims. The experience must be horrific. A sincere Thank You for your contribution.
Returning to a theory - or scenario of events the night TD disappeared, I am wondering, what could be the purpose of drugging the drink of a man? I can only think of robbery as a logical possibility.
The articles mention men as well as women as victims.
What if he drank a drink that someone else thought was going to be drank by his wife?
What if someone wanted him temporarily out of the way to make a move on the wife?
Those are the only other two theories than robbery I can come up with as I doubt there are crews looking to sexually exploit men at this particular establishment.
Drugging happens to all different people for many different reasons.. sometimes all it takes is being a jerk to a bartender.
It’s a remote possibility in this case, and it would make some sense since he was so confused as he wandered around, but i highly doubt the person who drugged him came back and found him hours later to commit a crime...
I'm so sorry that happened to you.
Your story is very valuable. It makes it more likely to me that Tyler could have been drugged.
Considering they had to wait for an Uber for a while it makes me wonder if he could have been drugged around closing time and then passing out in the Uber when drugs kicked in.
The story BD told on TCG about the girl giving them (Tyler?) water while waiting for the Uber is weird. Did anyone else get water too? Why would the girl (I think it was a stripper) do that?
Men can be date raped as well.
I don't buy the drink-drugging theory. There already were plenty of red flags about this case before without assuming someone at the bar drugged his drink. i.e. Occam's Razor