Found Deceased OR - Melissa Marie Jubane, 32, Beaverton, 4 September 2024 *Arrest*

[Charlot123]

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Probably, a slightly shy and emotional kid whose parents hoped he’d grow out of it. Indeed, he seemingly achieved. I would also bet that if a mom is social and dad, less so, then mom brings friends into the house and friends bring in kids, exposure to peers “normalizes” their kid’s oddities. He grew out of the “dangerous age” before 24, without problems. The problems, as I guess, started when he was living on his own and likely, reverted to old fantasies. Maybe - moved to a new town, new hospital, no time to establish firm relationships, the apartments were like a fortress, in short, social isolation.

Not condoning the behavior at all, just analyzing. The parents are not at fault. JMO.

 

[LAborn]

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I'm in NO WAY defending the guy or surprised that a "good kid" appearance means anything, just wondering why stuff that doesn't seem to be about this perp is being discussed. He wasn't a neglected kid playing video games instead of sports.

But maybe I'm misreading the thread.

jmo

Sorry, I misunderstood your original comment. Thanks for clarifying!

 

[PommyMommy]

At the 1:13 mark, I noticed a person in orange shirt in the little room with glass window (look to the left) that looks like it might be BS? Hard to say..MOO

 

[Dre]

I see all of our brains scurrying to try to fill in the gaps because we have so little info… the sociological and psychological speculation is on fire lol! That’s how you know you spend a lot of time sleuthin’

 

[fleetwoodmac]

At the 1:13 mark, I noticed a person in orange shirt in the little room with glass window (look to the left) that looks like it might be BS? Hard to say..MOO

I took a look and it appears to be a woman with longer hair? Hard to say though! It doesn't look like any of the pictures I have seen.

 

[PommyMommy]

SEP 9, 2024

‘Full of joy’: University of Portland staff remembers deceased Beaverton nurse

The trial process began today for the man accused of kidnapping and killing a Beaverton woman last week.

www.kptv.com

SN is an Associate Professor at the School of Nursing and Health Innovation, and one of Jubane’s former teachers, who still remembers the way she made others feel.

“She was just super supportive of her classmates, engaged and happy to be in class and learning,” SN said. “She definitely was a bit of a quiet leader, she always had a little bit of sway with her students and kind of encouraged them to move along, and just so thoughtful, and just a bright spot in the classroom.”

 

[Snoopster]

When I was on the search, neighbors said they were forbidden, which to me is bizarre. I'm sure they had their reasons, but in light of world events and this tragedy, let folks have their ring cameras. Maybe it would have prevented this nut job to be so bold knowing he was on camera, IDK.

I'm torn about Ring cameras in apartment buildings. While I agree the building should have cameras at key points (like elvators and stairwells) and only available to building staff, I would worry about neighbors spying on the timing of my coming and going, even if I was just going to the garbage chute in my nighttime comfy wear.

 

[fleetwoodmac]

JMO - not his case. Probably, a slightly shy and emotional kid whose parents hoped he’d grow out of it. Indeed, he seemingly achieved. I would also bet that if a mom is social and dad, less so, then mom brings friends into the house and friends bring in kids, it “normalizes” the kid’s oddities. He grew out of the “dangerous age” before 24, without problems. The problems, as I guess, started when he was living on his own and reverted to old fantasies. Maybe - moved to a new town, new hospital, no time to establish firm relationships, the apartments were like a fortress, in short, social isolation.

Not condoning the behavior at all, just analyzing. The parents are not at fault. JMO.

The thing is, he has, or who knows, until recently, had a girlfriend. They moved in together, into the building, last year. She worked in the same hospital as Melissa. <modsnip>

 

[PommyMommy]

I took a look and it appears to be a woman with longer hair? Hard to say though! It doesn't look like any of the pictures I have seen.

I appreciate you looking. My eyes aren't the best. I wish we had a recent photo that could be posted here so we could make a better comparison.

Glad to see you're hanging in there, @fleetwoodmac. I know it can't be easy.

THANK YOU, @slowpoke!

 

[Oregonmama]

I’m not good at enlarging and enhancing the document from the video, but I tried…
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Barton is a great DA. He is also the big guy in charge in the DA office.

 

[fleetwoodmac]

I appreciate you looking. My eyes aren't the best. I wish we had a recent photo that could be posted here so we could make a better comparison.

Glad to see you're hanging in there, @fleetwoodmac. I know it can't be easy.

It's been unsettling, but I'm grateful to be a part of this little community. It definitely helps take my mind off things, in a weird way, even though we are talking about it. Makes me feel a little less alone!

 

[Charlot123]

Interesting. He was invovled in sports, from what I looked up. Football I believe. But yes, young men (and some old ones) really struggle to keep their *advertiser censored* together. Not sure of the answer. Other countries seem to have less issues, so we could start with seeing how they do things.

They have exactly the same issues, maybe less means, or the means are different. OK, maybe more nuclear societies and poorer countries where people have to work longer to survive have fever problems of precisely our kind, but they surely have other issues. Or maybe, “their” cases don’t make the headlines, but when they make, OMG... About BS - he was in sports, and maybe it distracted him so he didn’t act out sooner. I think sports and structure and a coach who says, “one more time, and you are out”, helps.

 

[fleetwoodmac]

They have exactly the same issues, maybe less means, or the means are different. OK, maybe more nuclear societies and poorer countries where people have to work longer to survive have fever problems of precisely our kind, but they surely have other issues. Or maybe, “their” cases don’t make the headlines, but when they make, OMG... About BS - he was in sports, and maybe it distracted him so he didn’t act out sooner. I think sports and structure and a coach who says, “one more time, and you are out”, helps.

I agree with you. Having grown up all over the world, violence against women is a global problem. In many countries it doesn't even get reported or shared on the news, as it isn't newsworthy.

 

[Charlot123]

Why are they protecting this guy? I don’t understand it. He should be paraded around the courtroom like the monster that he is in my humble opinion!!

They did a good job arresting him. Let them decide how to conduct the pre-trial and trial phases.

 

[Oregonmama]

Why are they protecting this guy? I don’t understand it. He should be paraded around the courtroom like the monster that he is in my humble opinion!!

Oregon and several other states mandated no mug shots. It was a decision with out a vote from Oregonians. The Gov decided that unfortunately.

 

[Marie A]

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Police say evidence points to a serious crime or medical incident in West Linn nursing director's disappearance

New details from police surrounding the disappearance of a Rose Linn Care Center nursing coordinator only seem to further complicate the circumstances around her disappearance.

www.westlinntidings.com

Just to rule out any connection…..

 

[LAborn]

They did a good job arresting him. Let them decide how to conduct the pre-trial and trial phases.

Oregon and several other states mandated no mug shots. It was a decision with out a vote from Oregonians. The Gov decided that unfortunately.

(from Oregon). Right, I think they opted for no mug shots to protect people who are falsely accused, but this is the flip side of that coin.

 

[PommyMommy]

FEB 9, 2024

Nurses hold vigil for slain colleague Melissa Jubane​

 

[Oregonmama]

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Police say evidence points to a serious crime or medical incident in West Linn nursing director's disappearance

New details from police surrounding the disappearance of a Rose Linn Care Center nursing coordinator only seem to further complicate the circumstances around her disappearance.

www.westlinntidings.com

Just to rule out any connection…..

Not the place to post this until LE says there is a connection. I don't think Bryce is a serial killer. JMO

 

[Knox]

Agree, we've strayed very far from what is necessary for each gender to mature. Along the lines of what you said, "definitely not sitting at a computer alone with one's thoughts", unfortunately no matter a person's interest or deviance, there's stuff on the internet to feed it and even affirm/condone it. The echo chamber isn't saying, "That's completely wrong and unacceptable!" Whereas in the past, the larger family/community group would be feedback about what's acceptable or not, guide the person back on track.

I agree with this 100%.