I'm with Unscripted...we've all pretty much have posts deleted, perhaps been put on a time-out once or twice for either knowingly or unknowingly overstepping TOS. Don't take it personally. It happens. And you can still contribute quite a bit by being a local even if some specific subjects are off limits. It's always good to get a "vibe" of a club or an area or whatever...
Hope you return.
I've had posts pulled. It means the mods are paying attention, which is good.
Just as an example - We use the initials BF for boyfriend, even if we are aware of his name. If it hasn't been published, we can't use it.
It's been reported everywhere that there is a Sleepover Guy. He's given interviews that confirm it. So that's what I try to call him when posting, whether or not I personally know his identity. It's not been published. Some here have labeled him "Guest", which is fine and a lot simpler than Sleepover Guy.
What
has been published is Kortne's name, address, her parents names, what club she went to, what kind of car she drives...and not much more.
We cannot speak in these forums about any specific person who has not been identified as a POI or otherwise identified in the press. Comment sections are not the same as a legitimate publication. Neither are tabloids or their online equivalents.
Even when a person's been identified - say a roommate or school chum - if they are not a POI, we can't sleuth them or speak of sleuthing them. Mostly because it's really not fair. If my former next door neighbor who moved away in 1997 became the victim of a crime, I wouldn't want 1000 people digging through my life.
It's not so bad. When you say SheWhoCannotBeNamed or YouTubeGuy or GasPumpRunningMan people will usually know what you mean.
And you can speak of them in context - "I wonder why GasPumpRunningMan is running" is OK. "GasPumpRunningMan is Joe Dirt who I saw with my own eyes steal a pie from my mother's windowsill, here's his address and call his dad at this number" is not OK.
In the MS threads, I referred to the known, charged attacker as EFB, because I refuse to grant him his name. The first initial is for Evil, btw.
So sleuth on!