Steely Dan
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I'm almost positive he's dead. From what his daughter and girlfriend say, it seems unlikely that he would never have contacted them.
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I'm almost positive he's dead. From what his daughter and girlfriend say, it seems unlikely that he would never have contacted them.
I think that there is are at least two very good reason why he would not contact either, directly, if RFG did walk away.
1. RFG was familiar with cases of declaring people dead. He actually talked about one, the Mel Wiley case. Wiley is believe to have walked away (and there is a thread on him).
RFG would, as a lawyer, realize that both PEF and LG would be called to testify. If he tells either, they have a choice, tell the truth or commit perjury. I don't think he wanted to put them in the position of perjury and engaging in fraud.
We can see something similar in the Brenda Heist case. Her husband is not facing any criminal charges because she never told him that she left on her own.
2. RFG has no idea exactly what LE is monitoring in terms of communication. It would have been possible that LE could have intercepted a message.
I can understand why RFG would not tell LG or PEF, if he did walk away.
I'm almost positive he's dead. From what his daughter and girlfriend say, it seems unlikely that he would never have contacted them.
J.J., at this late date and let's say for the period of time since Mr. Gricar has been in the status of " legally declared deceased", do you have an opinion on whether or not Lara or Patty would reveal any knowledge of his whereabouts IF he was alive and had communicated with either since the legal status change?
All the loved ones in his life would have to do is keep silent. Not tell his secrets. Not submit to polygraphs if asked to take them, on the basis that they had already done so years before. etc.
If he walked away why would he give up a nice pension just because someone could trace him? Like I said he was not abandoning a nagging wife and a house full of kids he needed to support.
It is not a crime to walk away. RG's daughter was grown and can make her own way. I doubt she'd rather have his benefits than a relationship with him. Actually I never thought suicide before but I think homicide or suicide much more likely than walk away.
for what its worth my pension information is not public record. If I did something illegal certainly it could be obtained but not just anyone could walk in there and get the information. After I'm gone, yes.
Just to clarify, pension information IS a public record in the State of New Jersey, and I'm pretty sure its also public in Pennsylvania. Its public by law under the state open public records act.
I think one talking head put it best when he said that if you think that the Gricar's disappearance had nothing to do with the Sandusky thing, you're being naive. I think there's a very good chance the two things are connected. JMO
Gotta think the bump up to the PSP only strengthens the foul play theory. You don't need more statewide resources to look for a suicide 9 years later, and God help us all if Ray's been hiding in PA and no one's noticed for 9 years. If they thought he was anywhere else, they could have engaged the FBI or international LE. The fact that this went to the highest PA CRIMINAL investigation unit means there's something worth chasing down, it's big, and it's right here in our backyard. Given the recent Sandusky and Hell's Angels revelations, there must be some pretty compelling leads pointing to foul play.
Gotta think the bump up to the PSP only strengthens the foul play theory. You don't need more statewide resources to look for a suicide 9 years later, and God help us all if Ray's been hiding in PA and no one's noticed for 9 years. If they thought he was anywhere else, they could have engaged the FBI or international LE. The fact that this went to the highest PA CRIMINAL investigation unit means there's something worth chasing down, it's big, and it's right here in our backyard. Given the recent Sandusky and Hell's Angels revelations, there must be some pretty compelling leads pointing to foul play.
ITA. If they really thought he walked away or killed himself I doubt that they'd be expending so much in resources. :moo:
ITA. If they really thought he walked away or killed himself I doubt that they'd be expending so much in resources. :moo:
My thoughts exactly. At 9 years later, no point in wasting law enforcement hours on someone who's been declared dead unless there's something criminal to be found. This isn't about finding RG, it's about finding his killer.
There would be several reasons, however.
Simply, they want the PSP to review it then announce a solution, so it doesn't look like there is a "local cover-up."
They think RFG is alive and want him as a material witness in the PSU 3 trial. If he was available, it is likely he would be called.
1. He met someone he knows across from the antique shop. That person smoked and was evidently a woman from eyewitness reports.
2. He left his car behind with no intention of going back for it, or wasn't capable of going back for it.
3. Whoever threw his laptop into the river and removed the hard drive didn't want anyone to know what was on it.
4. Ray has not contacted his family in nine years, that we know about.
5. Both the girlfriend and daughter passed lie detector tests early on.
6. He was the prosecutor that knew about the JS case and didn't prosecute it.
If he walked away then they need to find him so his family can have peace and they can ask him what was on the hard drive that he wanted destroyed?
I know less than you do then.
Respectfully snipped.
1. I do not know of any sighting with the woman across from the SoS. She was seen with him in the SoS. We don't know if she was actually "with" RFG or just a fellow shopper.
2. We don't know his intention, except that the keys are missing.
And RFG did not want anyone to know what was on it. He did the searches and asked people about how to get rid of the data. It, however, is not unusual for someone not wanting what his on his/her computer to ever see the light of day. It could be unrelated to his disappearance.
Agreed, but nothing recent.
There are other questions. Why didn't RFG prosecute Sandusky in 1998? Why was the case handled the way it was? Was there any additional contact between officials at PSU and the DA's Office?