If she needs mental help, bourne then probably over 75% of the parents in this city need it too.
These kids grow up in violence. They see it all the time. Oh and the "It wasn't me" culture prevails. of course it isn't all families and all kids, but ultimately if it's even admitted they beat you down it will be your own fault. You looked at someone crooked or walked weird. You name it.
I have always espoused that teenagers learn parenting skills in schools, churches or community centers so that when they become parents, they'd know how to teach their kids morality, respect, compassion and a balanced dose of self-esteem.
If 75% of parents are enablers and not willing to teach their children responsibility and accountability for their own actions, then yes, these parents need mental help and guidance.
Unless society changes to a more compassionate one where individual accountability and respect for other people are emphasized over entitlements (what other people and society "owe" you), then we'll see more abject incivility and violence.
We cite the U.S. Constitution and talk about our "inherent rights" all the time, e.g., our right to free speech and saying whatever the heck we want to others, our right to own guns, our rights to stand up to an oppressive government, etc. -- but we don't talk about how we must honor OTHER people's rights as well. And that with our rights also comes personal responsibility and accountability.
Our freedoms and rights should not infringe upon other people's freedoms, including their rights to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. All humanity has worth. We can't just pick and choose whose life is worthy and whose is not. We have to teach children -- and this teaching begins at home, with the parents as teachers -- that ALL life deserves honor, respect and compassion, not just life that happens to resemble yours in physical makeup (race, color, etc.) and what you consider normal behavior (unhandicapped, same IQ range as yours, etc.)