katiecoolady
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I recently had to go to therapy for a very personal tragedy. The therapist had very similar dolls in the office, along with a cuddling blanket. I instantly recoiled from those props, because to me they represented the pain I experienced. Those dolls looked evil to me. I saw this therapist twice and couldn't go back. I disliked this person intensely. I felt they were completely out of touch with compassion and victim agony; way too much in my face! Maybe I had a normal reaction, but I wouldn't have taken my child back there either.
I sense this same lack of compassion for true victims from doc. She said there were 30-31 boxes of evidence to review from this case. We've seen Travis berate the killer in one email trail, and all she got from the voluminous documentation was that Travis was a master manipulator? She's seriously from the same sick alternate universe as the murderer, and an unconscionable prognosticator, imo. Seriously, how does she do this and ever look herself in the mirror?
I'm glad you listened to your gut w/ that therapist. I firmly believe many MANY people in the Psych field are nuttier than the patients (I can say this from experience having been raised by two of them--don't get me wrong, I love my father dearly but, ya know--and I WAS a nutty psych RN at one point having been driven nutty from working too long w/ that population with too much of my own avoided crap going on ). Anyway, long winded way to say I'm glad you didn't go back and walked away. Sometimes the whole opportunity in a relationship is the one we take when we walk away from it.
I sense a lack of compassion for MEN from this Dr. as I did from LaViolette. How anyone could look at that crime scene, know what she did and decide she was some victim, something is screwy there. Hugs for your situation too.