Hatfield
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What you're implying is that the Hughes' were instrumental in driving Travis towards a more extended relationship with Jodi than he might have wanted otherwise? Because they got him to feel guilty about maybe he wasn't being more overtly sensitive to her needs? Interesting......
I don't much care for the Hughes' myself: I think they see a big opportunity in this situation. But they also aren't my friends. They were Travis' friends and he highly valued their opinion. Their connection was complicated by his business relationship with them. That's on Travis, though, and it was between him and the Hughes', not something we could evaluate in hindsight, given that he's not here to explain. Relationships often aren't simple, and this one evidently was in that category. I don't think we should be judgmental about how either party handled that relationship, because all 3 of them might have been quite fine with it.
I also think some posters are letting go of the fact that Jodi was manipulating all 3 them. They could never have guessed that evil was in their midst and letting loose among them. In the same situation, I don't think I would have guessed, either. Jodi's manipulations laid the groundwork for opinionatedness on all sidesSkye, Travis, what's his namebecause they all had to dig in their heels just to attempt to sort out the situation. She was deliberately divisive.
Plus, the Hughes' were in some sense taking care of Travis, because they knew he wanted a wife. Blame Jodi: they were three normal naive people whose complicated relationship she made even more complicated.
Some things in Travis' life were on him, not on anyone else. One of the signs of his maturity is that he knew when that was the case. I think we should put his relationship with the Hughes' in the "it was on him" category and not second-guess either party.
with all sincere respect, sorry but I am not letting them off the hook for some of the damage they have caused. Whether intentional or not, they have brought a lot of negatives to this trial and even to Travis before he was killed.
For all we know Travis may have been trying to dump Jodi at the time and was just doing it in his own way. Some people have a tough time being honest with people when they want to breakup with them and they simply dont like them anymore as they once did.
The way Travis was behaving with Jodi may have just been his way of trying to give her hints and signs he was losing interest in her. And then here comes the Hughes to put a guilt trip on him and it may have affected his own way of dealing with her.
I agree Jodi was definitely manipulating the Hughes, however, they erred too by being too gullible and taking the bait. If they had done a better job of vetting out what JA was telling them, then things may have turned out quite different.