Mainly just because he looks very similar in photos to other players down at my son’s local football club. I’m not saying he hasn’t done it, just that it’s quite scary that if I saw him I wouldn’t ever think twice myself that he would be capable of murdering someone. More just the fact that I struggle to understand why someone would do such a thing. It also opens my eyes to the fact that you just can’t judge a book by its cover.
Appearances can be very deceiving, as this case has strikingly demonstrated.
Our perception of how another
appears, informed as it is by life experiences, familial and societal stereotypes, can lead to (possibly dangerous) assumptions.
IMO Mick Murphy, Samantha's husband, has been in the sights of many as the most likely perpetrator of Samantha's demise, based partially on certain "appearances" (as stated) including:
- his attire at the press conference
- his mention of food whilst thanking supporters for their largesse and kindness
- his interaction with his daughter being "off"
- he was smiling whilst talking to a police officer
to name just a few...
The appearance of the alleged perpetrator who looks like many at the local footy club (paraphrasing)?
I'm not sure how they look, but IMO could be tall, athletic build, up for a laugh, possibly some alcohol nearby, with mates...
Most of us thankfully, will never have to experience anything like the pressure which Mick Murphy has IMO been enduring since Samantha's disappearance. Not knowing what on earth has happened to his wife would be bad enough. Seeing the grief and pain of his children, and trying to support them, when the one thing they want is for their mum to walk through the door, would be agonising.
After speaking at the first press conference, IMO he would have realised very quickly that everything he said would be subjected to intense scrutiny, (along with everything he wore), and that many were now labelling him as a wife-murderer.
IMO, given the pressure he must have been experiencing (ie a living hell), he has handled his public appearances with considerable grace. MOO