Maybe (and most likely) JJ has some self esteem issues. He dates trash because he doesn't feel he deserves any better. Or maybe they make him feel superior. He definitely wasn't the superior one in his relationship with SB.
My husband left me for a trashy woman because deep down he was trash. Don't ever believe that it's because the man isn't getting what he needs or wants at home. May happen in a few cases, but IMO it's only their excuse. They're missing something internal, soul, feeling of self worth??? I don't know, and I've wasted too much of my life trying to figure it out.
Sniperacer, I know you were just trying to get a reaction or at least I hope so.
BBM, what many dont seem to understand is that the lack of sex in a relationship is usually a good indication that there are issues and the lack os sex or not enough is just a indicator that other issues need to be addressed. Unfortunately many find this to be the sole cause of cheating and its not. woman need more of an emotional connection ( not to say there arent cases of just a physial thing only) and if they are not feeling that connnection then there is something else amiss.. perhaps if guys understood that they wouldnt assume the woman is cold, frigid, holding out or wahtever and if that is addressd they its likely there issue with the lack of sex would be resolved and they wouldnt " seek it elsewhere". There si not excuse regardless for cheating. None. JMHO But there is also a lot of truth to the man's feeling of indaequacy and that plays into to their need to gain that elsewhere when they arent getting that at home.
its not a single issue its multiple things thjat lead to the cheating but it doesnt solve the problems - it only causes more harm.