I'm just wondering, is this all based on the concept that men dont reject sex, anytime, ever? Or just that some find Travis wouldnt? Because I HAVE indeed met men whom have turned it down after being attached to individual for a while. Just saying, I dont think any one womans opinion about relationships or the female psyche speaks for all of us, just as I wouldnt feel any one males can reflect another's. Travis wasnt just a man, he was an abused man believe me, there is a difference. They will find their own weakness unbearable and CAN go cold after they have endured enough (TAs intelligence/sensitivity are change factors in this capacity because you may not see this type of off-switch with normal men they would have never endured it in the first place, but just as the feelings escalate, they can quickly de-escalate with cognition). Travis may or may not have had any physical interest, but this doesnt really say that sex was so powerful or Jodi was so powerful to Travis. All it would show is that either his body reacted, or his body reacted but his mind was under threat of death and he had no choice but to accommodate rape/duress.
I dont desire to change anyones opinion here, just saying rejecting a woman, and then Jodi Arias, are also two different things. She may have already tarnished her appeal all on her own. Just because someone is bugging you on the phone and you finally call back, could be for anything. Ive done the same. I didnt take the bait. I just wanted them to ensure they didn't drop by my office again, or house, etc etc. I hung up out of frustration before leaving a message. That person got the point all the same - I'm not interested, stop calling!