Reviewing the chronology reinforces my opinion that her May 22 texts alluded to the sex tape recording, not anything financial:
Major fights dominated their texts from late March through mid-April, mostly related to TA’s anger and suspicion that she had been hacking into his FB but attributing what she found there to what (an imaginary) friend told her about TA.
One of these fights forced her into leaving Mesa. Her great bitterness about that fight was apparent in both her journal and her related testimony on the stand. It was this fight in which TA threatened to expose her as a twisted liar to both friends and her family.
Broke, driving her car that was due to be repossessed, pulling a U-Haul filled with what? Books and colored pencils? On the way back to a little bedroom in her grandparents’ house in Oregon, she detoured all the way to southern CA to pick up that Helio from Gus.
April 29. TA ASKS MIMI TO GO TO CANCUN WITH HIM AND SHE SAYS YES. (from TA’s journal). AND, IMO, WHEN THE CRAZY BEGAN IN EARNEST.
April 29. TA supposedly posts flattering comment on her MySpace page.
May 1. TA supposedly posts second flattering comment on her MySpace page.
May 2. TA supposedly sends tree *advertiser censored* fantasy text- the text she sent to herself.
May 8. Alleged date of phone sex.
May 16. JA sends long, twisted “recognize me” email to TA. (FWIW. Rereading it now, it hits me differently. I think its possible the email was another piece of planted evidence, intended to “prove” she had let go of him and they were still on friendly terms, and to suggest that Deanna was emotionally unstable and jealous (pointing the finger for suspects?). Much of the foundation for her “dirty secret” lie can be found in this email).
Link to full text of email:
http://www.websleuths.com/forums/sh...-Alexander-s-Journals-and-text-messages/page9 (post #133)
May 18. Helio “stolen.” (writes this in journal entry on 18th, and supposedly files a police report. IIRC, Nurmi uses her journal entry as “proof” that she thought it was stolen rather than an actual police report.
May 22. Writes in journal about arrival of replacement phone (that sure was quick). Same day she texts TA that she’s in a big mess and needs to talk with him.