OneLostGrl
I'm going against the grain- I'm going sane
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I have to say that MOMMA CA putting her head down (drama style) and KC completely IGNORING her while GA spewed his D&D (dumb and dumber) carp, spoke VOLUMES to me about the f'ed up family "dynamic' here!
MOO
There was another incident somewhat like that during another visit. Casey and George were talking and Cindy was trying to take the phone from George but he didn't give it up. Soooo she starts squirming around in her seat then she started rubbing her hands on her chest as if in pain, and Casey says to George (in an off-hand manner) "Tell mom to keep breathing" (not exact quote but close).. George didn't even look in Cindy's direction to see wtf Casey was talking about and didn't say anything about it. Cindy got no attention and quickly stopped her rubbing.
My mom (Borderline) has always used "anxiety attacks" (fakes them to get attention) as one of her methods of control over loved ones and that is the FIRST thing that came to mind when I saw Cindy in the video rubbin' her chest. She wanted the phone, it wasn't given to her so she fakes anxiety/pain to get the attention she was lacking because Casey and George were talking with one another and not her. I suspect her games used to work but she raised her daughter to be too much like her and she took over.
MO