Dotta
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good lord, I'm speechless (which doesn't happen often). i understand Jay's repatriation needs to be covered, but my goodness please just have the loving family funeral you can afford. This really doesn't show the family in a good light.Jay Slater’s mother encourages more donations to give him the ‘send-off he deserves’
Jay Slater’s mother, Debbie Duncan, said she is ‘overwhelmed with grief’ but grateful for support from the publicwww.independent.co.uk
“We want to give our boy the send-off he deserves so please do continue to share and support our fundraiser however you can.”
I understand what you’re saying but if his family have laid these in memory of Jay, please just let them. If this is part of their grieving process, then that’s for them to do. They’re going through an incredibly hard time and the least of their worries should be about “leaving tatt”. They want to remember their boy.I fail to see how littering an area of exceptional national beauty is supposed to be a good thing but that's just me.
Ditto the mountains of cut flowers in plastic wrappers that get piled up at the scene of accidents. Surely there's got to be a nicer way to mark the scene of a fatality and someone's life / passing, generally speaking, than cheap tatt, plastic, littering, and fire hazards?
I agree and doesn't travel insurance help with repatriation costs?good lord, I'm speechless (which doesn't happen often). i understand Jay's repatriation needs to be covered, but my goodness please just have the loving family funeral you can afford. This really doesn't show the family in a good light.
Thats if he had any.I agree and doesn't travel insurance help with repatriation costs?
Whilst it's not something I'd do I can't bring myself to criticise a family who've been through an horrendous month and are expressing their grief as they know howI fail to see how littering an area of exceptional national beauty is supposed to be a good thing but that's just me.
Ditto the mountains of cut flowers in plastic wrappers that get piled up at the scene of accidents. Surely there's got to be a nicer way to mark the scene of a fatality and someone's life / passing, generally speaking, than cheap tatt, plastic, littering, and fire hazards?
If you have it, it probably would but I'm not sure Jay was in the insurance buying demographicI agree and doesn't travel insurance help with repatriation costs?
Jay Slater’s mother encourages more donations to give him the ‘send-off he deserves’
Jay Slater’s mother, Debbie Duncan, said she is ‘overwhelmed with grief’ but grateful for support from the publicwww.independent.co.uk
“We want to give our boy the send-off he deserves so please do continue to share and support our fundraiser however you can.”
I'm sorry for what you're going through but I don't think she's implying any kind of insult to anyone else, in fact I'd be surprised if she gives a thought to or cares what anyone else does. Her thinking that Jay deserves an over the top funeral doesn't mean that she thinks others don't, every parent in that situation would think their child deserving wouldn't they?I've mostly refrained from commenting because I don't enjoy the way this has basically become a soap opera for some people but having the mother asking for further funds to give Jay 'the send off he deserves' is an absolute insult to anyone who has lost (or like me, is expecting to lose) their much loved child quietly and without the benfit of headlines and crowdfunding.
Are our beloved children somehow less deserving?