sunshine05
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The problem though is he took her off all accounts (and didn't tell her) a couple months before the separation started (i.e. before she consulted an attorney to draft a separation agreement). That's passive/aggressive and mean. A man who unilaterally removes all access to accounts from his wife, with NO discussion is not, IMHO, a good guy with an open and honest agenda.
AND, this 'good guy' couldn't wait for Nancy and the girls to leave and go back to Canada. UNTIL he saw that sep. agreement & saw what it might cost him, he was pushing Nancy to leave by April 25. There was no custody agreement or anything at issue when he wanted her gone in April. He had no problem with her taking the girls and going away.
Testimony from several is that BC was NOT an involved father until those last couple of months when he was trying to look more involved. He worked a lot, trained for a very involved sport (Ironman) and, until Dec 2007, was also in an MBA program. How much time do you think he really spent with his kids? There wouldn't be many hours left, if at all.
I read the documents pertaining to the custody hearing last night and a lot of people wrote that he was a good father. Now, whether he was or not doesn't necessarily indicate whether he is capable of murder, I still am not convinced that he was a bad, uninvolved father.
The money - If she was driving them deeper and deeper into debt, maybe that's why he cut her off. They clearly seemed to have a huge debt problem. The custody papers indicated that NC spent a lot, they both did I'm sure.
I missed the part about him trying to force her to leave by April but that is important as far as motive.
One thing that hasn't come up, or that I haven't heard is life insurance. Does anyone know if he had a big policy on her?