Madeleine74
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I'm not even sure I replied to the original quote about this or not, but perhaps it would be helpful to know SH didn't find out about the BC affair until he found out from someone else after his marriage had ended with HM. And his marriage ended because HM left it after having a two year long affair behind his back with JP. So one would assume SH had bigger fish to fry with JP by the time he found out about the BC tryst that occurred years earlier.
Yes that was my understanding. HM's transgressions in total were more numerous and hurtful to her spouse at the time (SH) and since SH didn't know about BC till later, it probably paled a bit, compared to the overall situation with HM. Not that it was okay, but ... you know.