i agree. i cannot pretend to imagine the pain they've endured over the past three years. i've lost a child, she was killed, and it was absolutely devastating. and she was killed by a stranger, we couldn't say good-bye but we had her body to bury. we didn't go through months of terrible uncertainty. and most of all, the crime was not perpetrated by our child. rings of hell. i've been to hell, but i've not been to the anthonys' hell.