Okay I'm gonna jump in here and say why I think this 911 call doesn't make sense to me.
The first reaction to a child missing from the home (especially if a door is open), is that the child probably wandered out of the house. I know the family said she was afraid of the dark and wouldn't go out in the dark alone. That's just plain stupid to assume that! Young children are apt to do anything. You may think you know what your child will or will not do, but they can surprise the he!! out of you.
Questions:
Why did the dad automatically think some M&*% F'er came in and took her?
Why wasn't he out looking for his daughter while GF called 911????
Scenerio: About 20 years ago my great niece (3 or 4 years old) climbed on a chair and unlocked the door to their apartment and decided to go out and play or go for a walk. This was early in the morning while her parents were still asleep. The entire family panicked, but the one thing on everyone's mind was to start looking for her and call 911. My nephew (the baby's uncle, who was still very young, called me at work. He was bawling like a baby "Aunt J____, B____ is missing!!!" He told me what had happened. My immediate response was... I had to leave right now and go find my niece (I was 20 miles away). I grabbed my purse and keys and then realized I had not driven that day. I called my husband to come pick me up, but he wasn't home...more panic. Then I remembered he had planned to go somewhere with a friend of his. I grabbed the phone book to look up friend's number, but for the life of me I couldn't remember his friend's name.....more panic. All ended well. She was walking down a very busy highway and came upon a man on a ladder at a furniture store and stopped to see what he was doing. The man realized this was not a good sign...a 3 year old walking alone, down a busy highway, in her nightgown and barefoot. He came down from the ladder and tried to talk to her, but she was leery of talking to a strange man, so he got a female coworker to come out and talk to her and she told them she knew where she lived (don't think she knew the address though, but did know how to get home) and she agreed to let the man walk back home with her. Happy ending, back home, safe and sound.....thank you God!
My point: I believe the above scenario to be a normal reaction (even in a state of panic) to a missing child. You call 911 and also call other family members and friends and everybody goes looking for the child.
Did Ron call his family, friends, neighbors to come help him look for Haleigh. I'm thinking he did not. He was too busy cursing his girl friend, blaming his girlfriend, threatening to kill somebody. Now, his mom is a dispatcher. Surely he knows the person on the other end of the 911 call is not the same person who will be coming to find his daughter. Why is he attacking the 911 operator (who handled the situation very professionally and calmly IMO).
Ron, in my opinion is controlling and irrational; i.e., his way or no way. However, I want to know why he didn't feel it urgently necessary for him to immediately go out looking for his daughter while the girlfriend was calling 911.