Inparadise
Verified Insider - Rebecca Zahau Case
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Agree. Not sure why Jonah agreed to this type of arrangement with Dina instead of just giving her the money and letting her have total control over her own home, and giving the stipulation that she purchase a home far away from his.
If it were me, and my hubby/I wanted a divorce and we shared a child together, I'd want my own life and a home independent of his, and I'd want to reside as far away as possible so that we don't frequently cross paths and create uncomfortable, awkward situations for our shared child when my ex-hubby and I decide to date other people. My utmost concern would be the comfort and well-being of my child. I would not be holding on to my hubby, living in a home close to his, and getting him to set me up in a vacation home in the same neighborhood as his vacation home. That's too much psychological enmeshment and has the potential to cause all kinds of conflicts and misunderstandings and ill-will. But hey, I'm glad I'm not Dina or Jonah.
Perhaps Jonah was aware that Dina was unstable, and he wanted to make sure that Max had a roof over his head.......maybe he thought that if he gave Dina money instead of providing a home for she and Max to live in, that some of her relatives might "bankrupt" her or she might spend it all.....and leave her homeless?