Hatfield
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I went back and forth on this. I'm positive LH loved her child, in the way that she could. Heck, I'm sure there are MUCH better parents in the world than what I'm capable of, but I love my kids with everything that I have. I'm not demonstrative in my affection. I punch my (24 yr old) son in the arm more than I hug him. That's just how we show affection, we wrestle. Admittedly, I have to wax my upper lip every two weeks because apparently, I have a ton of testosterone
On the flip side of that, I can't put aside this weird "flippant" feeling that I get when seeing how Cooper's death has been handled by his family. Lets not continue CPR and someone else can do it, let's not see Cooper one last time, let's just have another kid, let's just not openly grieve, lets not show up for a single day of court, let's just neglect to give him a headstone. It baffles me. Just like RH's defense, you can explain some things, but when you have to explain EVERY thing, there's a problem.
For the record, if this had happened to one of my children (as unemotional as I project myself) I would be absolutely, horrendously gutted. And if I didn't have money for a headstone, I would sell my own plasma, take out a loan, get a 2nd job, beg or borrow to have a memoriam for my child - and you'd have to pull me off of the dirt on most days.
You wouldn't have to ask me if I wanted to see my child one last time, or my husband. I would have demanded to see my child immediately.
J.M.O.
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Great Post! Totally agree.
Something is just off. It began for me when I saw reports about her daycare pickup.
It is very disturbing. There is some conflicting information depending on what news or reports we look at. This one is concerning here
"On Thursday, Gray told jurors she found it strange when she saw Taylor show up at Little Apron that afternoon.
“Well, that’s weird, that’s Cooper’s mom,” Gray testified, recalling her thoughts.
“What are you doing here?” Gray said she asked Taylor. “Cooper’s not here.”"
So why was it weird? Did she not normally come to pick him up? And if so then what made her come that particular day?
It gets worse...
"According to telephone records, Harris called the phone in Gray’s room at Little Apron and had a six-minute conversation.
But Gray insisted repeatedly that she never received any such call that day."
So who was he talking to? Did he get voice mail and fake that he was talking to someone when he was with LE at the car?
http://www.ajc.com/news/local/coope...care-worker-testifies/NXef1TbLNac6tJYLwh1HkK/
And of course we have the infamous report that says this
" when Leanna Harris realized Cooper hadn’t been dropped off at daycare, she told employees at the daycare facility, “Ross must have left him in the car.” In spite of employees listing other reasons why Cooper wasn’t at daycare, Leanna insisted her husband left their son in the car. She and Justin took turns dropping Cooper off at daycare."
http://heavy.com/news/2014/07/leanna-justin-ross-harris-cooper-baby-left-in-car/
Whether we believe that or not then we have the eulogy which is very concerning.
"Am I angry with God? No. This is part of His plan for Ross and I. Is this our purpose? I don’t know. I’m still waiting on the Lord to reveal that to me."
Purpose? Plan? Would that be to go on tour around the country and get speaking fees ? Was that some kind of pre conceived Purpose or Plan?
And then finally, to your point, here we see a strange addition about having more children already during the actual eulogy. His poor soul is not even rested yet and talking about more kids.
"Ross is and was and will be, if we have more children, a wonderful father."
Its all very concerning.