Seasidepch
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Yeah, he played with fire that he probably didn't fully appreciate the capacity of (although he did say he thought she might kill him but had sex with her anyway?). And yes, you can take something that's offered for free (assuming it was) or you can reject it -- clearly and consistently. Obviously, that's not what happened here. And yes, he did pay dearly for his "mistake." I think he paid dearly for his deliberate actions, not by any mistake, but that's just me.
Long time lurker, but can't resist the urge to jump in. First thing, clearly she murdered him - no question there - pure rage without a doubt. Guilty!
But, I do believe there was a form of emotional abuse on his part with someone I am sure he knew was unstable. He did play with her head - I will be with you if you convert, but we can't have sex. Well we can have sex if its this kind of sex. Oh well you had sex with me, you are a wh@re and I can't marry you.
He wasn't a poor innocent 16 yr old virgin - he knew what he was doing and anytime that JA crawled thru his doggy door he could have thrown her out or even call the police. I believe he over-estimated his ability to handle this situation and it cost him his life.
Again want to state no excuse for what she did - murder pure and simple.