They were both putting out the bait they thought would work.
Would Amber Frey have been interested had Scott been raunchy in the way TH was with MC?
Would MC be interested in Terri had she been "romantic" with him and looking for a long term relationship?
Both seem to be able to "read" what a person wants and give it to them. Probably something both used to their advantage their entire lives. (imo)
That's a really good point. Not to armchair her into being a sociopath (could be, I just don't know) but throwing out there that sociopaths are known to 'read' people and present to them the face they want to see.
I was just digging through the Laci Peterson archives last night looking for something I'd read a long time back that rang a bell - I didn't find it, but what it reminded me of was the sheer amount of (potential) humiliation at lies exposed that Scott withstood without emotion. His fake diplomas, his blatant lies on the evening news about the things he said he told LE *while LE was sitting there watching him speak*, the Amber tapes, etc etc. Any thinking person would have known at each of those steps that of course he'd get caught, of course the second the news broadcast ended LE would re-question him based on his open lies, or that his girlfriend would find out about his missing wife. He lied anyway, knowing full well he'd be caught. Didn't care. Someone upthread mentioned that most of SP's actions didn't indicate that he's a murderer per se, but that he operated under different decision making paradigm than most of us do. Totally agree.
And all of that was just to say that when I look at Terri's actions (sexts, etc), I don't understand how she could have thought she'd get away with it. This sexting, the graphic pictures, knowing she was an LE and media focus, house bugged, getting death threats (hence Dede and the fire extinguisher), her husband and baby gone - still acting this way... I was just thinking that perhaps like SP, she operates under a much different decision making paradigm than most people. Of course she'd get caught and of course it would make her look guilty (of many things) and for most of us be excruciatingly humiliating, yet still she does this, an inch away from discovery.
Again, it doesn't indicate that she's a murderer per se, but it makes it hard for the average person using what we'd consider normal logic to guess her motives. It makes it difficult to logically guess about what type of plan she thought was "brilliant" to make money, or what she is capable of doing with baby K in the car, or her motives for chatting with someone at the store and showing Kyron pictures pretty much in the same window of time in which he was being abducted. Unless we jump out of the rails of what seems logical to us.