close_enough said:
you're welcome Jilly....got another email from her...what's happened is a VERY good friend of hers died Jan 30th, & she's been 'taking care' of the person's 18 yr old son, till he can get hooked up w/his older brother....
she's very busy & very sad right now, but again she sends her "love to all".....
Thanks for emailing me and your warm concerns, close - you're ultra special and I so appreciate your thoughts and concerns ... and everyone else. I have private msgs that I've not even read yet; but after receiving another email from close I thought I'd quickly pop in. Been weeks since I browsed - haven't read a thing on any forum either. Thought I'd tell you all what happened.
Jason's dad, "V" our very dear friend (since we met 3 days after he arrived here, 4 years ago), was taken from us; "V" was part of this family in a humungus way. V was The Big Boy, only 42 years - with The Big Heart. Man, this was one guy that "one size fits all" took on a new meaning... Jason was on board a flight that landed 3 am to relocate here having just lost his mother last year. His new life with his dad was to begin with a mega Raptor Quad Bike that V bought Jase as a welcome-and-late-Christmas present. Hubby, V and I wrapped it - and left it parked in the driveway of their new home for Jase to see as he entered the yard.
In the weeks since V moved from a bachelor room to a 3-bedroomed home before Christmas, we worked together to furnish the home and ... in V's words... "So that Jason would never feel he had no home, having lost his mom.. and this place is going to be the best ..." A US$ 1,500.00 leather lounge suite later (plus, plus, plus ...) the home was 'done'.
V was killed the afternoon before Jason's plane landed. We all thought he'd overslept and as hub and i live literally 5 mins from airport, I cancelled my 11 am appointment and raced to collect Jase. 3 minutes later, while driving into the drop-off/collect zone, I was told... Body not released as they have to determine cause of death - extremely upsetting for family; they think V had a heart attack or stroke at the wheel of car as there were no body injuries from the accident (he ploughed into a tree).
And there was Jase - WAYYY down the drop off zone, no sleep, standing alone with his 'life' of duffel bags, cases, bags, and everything ... piled on a trolley; wondering where V was. Words cannot describe how the next few minutes became slow-motion and how, on seeing my face, Jase knew ... and we slipped to the ground... Even the policeman who came to tell me to move my car was stunned...
Oooowhhh... can't type now ... Jase will be with us for next 6 weeks; we turned my living room into a chapel and had a prayer service on 6th Feb... followed by a BBQ and I catered for 42 people (V loved my BBQ's!!!). I have pics of Christmas, that Jase and V's sister from Oz is so happy to keep ... I'll 'e' these fwd to close - and those interested can share our last dinner with V by pm (I guess - don't know how to attach pics) It's us and my famous Christmas Dinner with Turkey, those minty meatballs (lol...) and The Big Boy. Literally The Big Boy in the pics - with his 'flatmate' in his shirt-pocket. Flatmate being a lion-magnet I gave V for Xmas to keep him company til Jase arrived.
Jase has to finish school - and I'll so miss my best friend - we all will. This is the first time I've 'talked' about it - or been on my own ....
God bless &
love the one you're with.
Polks.
Close: thanks again: you're the best. x x x x x