digndoodle
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I don't think LE gave a hoot about how the Kesses felt about the ex. He was interviewed very soon after Jennifer went missing. He was interviewed by LE more than once. I don't think it matters whether or not the public was told that. Do you have a source to back up your first paragraph? Or is it your interpretation of how you think the Kesses feel? Sorry but it would be out of the ordinary for LE skip interviewing someone because they were told the person was a nice guy. Do you have some kind of source that shows they were harboring a safety net for suspects? What?
It's pointless to argue about it. LE obviously does not have enough on anyone to make an arrest. There are a lot of rabbit holes to go down in this case. Accusing the kesses of harboring suspects is the most ridiculous one i have heard, but it is your opinion, so carry on.
I don't think we need to get in any arguments about anything at this point, I am pointing a finger at no-one here but would love to express my opinion, I cannot possibly begin to know how it feels to have a child go missing, can't even put a tiny thought into what a parents grief would be like, so therefore I do not know what I would want the public to know about my child if they were missing, about some of the people they may have been friends with and etc.....but there is 1 (my terms only) bad quality I have noticed in one of the parents in all known shows and statements that have been made since her disappearence and sometimes the arrogance in our personality's forbids us to open our minds to be clear or correct on any possible new leads and etc. and by that I mean I feel as a parent we have in our minds what we want our kids to be perceived as in LIFE in general, we do not wish any person to think they are less than perfect, that they are young and definitely will be making mistakes along the way and I might add some will be pretty bad mistakes but I feel that is how we as people learn in LIFE and is how we pattern our grown up years after, there is not one reading this that can say you did not make many mistakes in your younger years, I certainly did and will be the 1st to admit it.
so therefore I feel sometimes this inward mind only thinking our kids are perfect can cloud our thinking and if a child was missing would sometimes totally close the mind down and the mind would reject any idea, possibility or even block 1 thought that our child was any less than the perfection we have ingrained in our minds....I hope I am making sense, it is hard to put into words what is in my heart but I have watched the interviews very close, sometimes even looking them up at a later time to re-watch them again and again and again....I'm sorry but I just feel one of the parents in this case will never have the barriers broken down no matter what kind of evidence they come forth with, how it may be proved and etc. it seems they have already formed how or what was done and there will be no way to ever change their minds, call it their grieving, coping pattern or whatever but the barriers needs to be broken in this person so clear thinking can come forth and then perhaps a lot could be added to Jennifer's case that perhaps they have held inside for these 8 plus years, if not I have a fear that this case may never be solved.....sometimes our arrogance can be a devil of a demon to push aside inside our minds because we would have to accept we were wrong and also accept that no child is perfect.
I just feel this investigation was messed up from the start, No-one should have entered the condo and I mean absolutely no-one until the lead investigator was there and finished all the necessary printing, looking for any possible dna down to the smallest things that should have been searched out and I'm blunt in saying this I know, but this family should not have been allowed inside until everything was totally searched out and when OPD gave them the OK to go inside if they wished and I feel if this had been the case we might have a lot more evidence found and this case could have been solved shortly after she was known missing...sometimes out best qualities as human beings is to be quiet and let things just fall into place as they should and not rush to try and be the super hero we all feel we can be sometimes deep inside of us.
I personally do not put a big 100% beside the x-BF, I just feel LE knew from the very start he was at the condo that weekend and I feel it was a red light to them when they 1st knew this and we know he has been interviewed several times, so in 8 plus years I feel if they even had a clue it could have been this person they would have had him tracked so hard that they would have found a way to have him arrested on some charge just to be brought in so they could have even watched him closer while in jail and perhaps even questioned him more, they would have found a way to get him on some type of charge plus we have the fact he has remained friends with her brother tells me there is not 1 shred of anything that LE or the Kesse's think he might be a POI in this case
I will end saying, I hope they have gained some new leads, new information and etc. that will perhaps start a new investigator on taking this case and going back to the very 1st day she was known missing, I just feel if new eyes would take this case they might see things that have been totally overlooked in all these 8 plus years and I feel some may be very simple things that were just dismissed as being what was thought to be nothing important but may turn out to be something big in leading them to soon solving this case....My heart breaks for the parents in this case, I seen them on the 1st interview on TV not long after Jennifer was known missing and I sat on my sofa and cried and cried at how heart broken they were, then saw where a time later they still went to the big roads and was still handing out flyers to motorists while the camera showed one parent hiding the tears behind the posters as they were handing them out...It breaks my heart right into, even to this very day.....I just hope soon they get a long overdue answer, this family has suffered long and hard and it is time they get answers and try to begin some type of healing process