gwenabob
A nice girl with a disturbing hobby
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okay - foot is in mouth as I'm typing...
actually, my wife is a stay at home mom and before the third child came along I was the stay at home dad...
implication was not that she was dumb or folks who stay home to raise children are "less than".
I know how hard it is and I respect the role 100% - guilty of poor wording - sorry to all.
my feeling and intended use of the language was only to imply that someone carting three kids around and dealing with the day to day BS and the constant nurturing may not have the time or resources to carefully plot the perfect crime. especially, in this case, where Kaine has stated that she had been in the throws of a pretty heavy drinking problem as well.
deepest apologies -
yesterday was one of those days where I was really busy at work and darting into the job trailer to check out updates and throw some thoughts down and obviously I wasn't proofing things very well.
cheers.
I have been a stay at home mom. I have been a full time work outside the house mom. In my experience, I had WAY, WAY, WAY more free time as a stay at home mom. I could come and go as I please. I had to answer to no one during the day while older kids were at school and hubby was at work. There is no reason on earth why TM could not have had plenty of time to plan and carry this out with only the baby to care for. And she had a drop-off babysitter available besides. So, I don't buy the "too busy nurturing and cooking and stuff" theory. Nope.