IzzyBlanche
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Could someone provide a source for Sebastian being verified at the construction site please?
There isn't one, because he wasn't.
Could someone provide a source for Sebastian being verified at the construction site please?
this bothers me more than the shoes. I've raised several boys, both gamers, the lack of technology is more disturbing to me than lack of shoes.Also. Seth said that Sebastian loved video games. But his backpack, phone, and Switch were all at the house.
Why would he run away with absolutely no way to play video games?
Thanks. Did wonder why it was worded as a fact.There isn't one, because he wasn't.
All my speculation no source other than the supposition of k-9 dogs going there. I wish I was able to edit my previous post to be more clear that it is just MOOCould someone provide a source for Sebastian being verified at the construction site please?
My son is ASD Level 1 and struggles with mental health issues. He is very self aware and knows he is different and hates it. He has been bullied and not accepted and made fun of for no other reason other than he is quirky and unique. He suffers from depression as a result and has expressed thoughts of being dead. He sees a therapist to help him cope.This pains me to write, because I feel that Sebastian didnt leave the house on this own and I hope he is alive.
However is there any chance he wanted to end his life, not grasping the finality of such action. I have absolutely no knowledge of 1, how teenager living with autism processes mental health struggles 2. if this is something that may have affected Sebastian.
That's a distinct possibility.This pains me to write, because I feel that Sebastian didnt leave the house on this own and I hope he is alive.
However is there any chance he wanted to end his life, not grasping the finality of such action. I have absolutely no knowledge of 1, how teenager living with autism processes mental health struggles 2. if this is something that may have affected Sebastian.
His home life can only be told through by C&K. But one thing that jumped out at me is when Seth said that hearing the Proudfoots talk about him was if they were talking about him at 4/5years old. Maybe his home life so stressful, with a constant need to comply and generally a lonely place that it made him regress to a much younger age. Take that then apply it over an extended period of years could lead to trauma. What if life had truly become unbearable for him and he couldn't conceptualize when moving in with dad would actually happen (Seth talked about Sebastian not having concept of time).
Was there one final moment that made him decide enough was enough?
JMO
Bless your son. I hope he finds an accepting group of friends who not only accept but enjoy his quirkiness & uniqueness.My son is ASD Level 1 and struggles with mental health issues. He is very self aware and knows he is different and hates it. He has been bullied and not accepted and made fun of for no other reason other than he is quirky and unique. He suffers from depression as a result and has expressed thoughts of being dead. He sees a therapist to help him cope.
I do not know if Sebastian has the same struggles but I feel that if that was the case he would have been found already.
MOO
That's a distinct possibility.
This paper suggests that youth on the autism spectrum do commonly experience suicidal thoughts and behaviors: The Phenomenology and Clinical Correlates of Suicidal Thoughts and Behaviors in Youth with Autism Spectrum Disorders
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Suicidal thoughts and behaviors were associated with the presence of depression and post-traumatic stress disorder. Overall, results suggest that suicidal thoughts and behaviors are common in youth with ASD, and may be related to depression and trauma.
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But with that said... where is he? We're still left with the lack of a body if he did, in fact, leave his home that night with the intent to self-harm.
After the nothing burger update this week, one of the reporters (Nick B ch5?) asked about LE releasing video of Sebastian taking out the trash. IDK if he was saying there is video or if he was trying to get the LEO to admit there is or is not video. Whichever it’s still annoying.Another thing. SR, according to KP, took the trash out that night - Sunday. Scent dogs would have tracked that.
No one from their side has made any comments. No neighbors had the typical comments we usually hear 'such a sweet boy and family, I hope they can find him'. ?Does KP and CP have any friends? Loners? Only family? Neighbors like them? No one coming out to be with them? I cannot imagine being cooped up in a camper together. Hopefully they are being watched closely. They afraid of house being bugged?
I missed that question. Hmm, could be either but yep it's still annoying.After the nothing burger update this week, one of the reporters (Nick B ch5?) asked about LE releasing video of Sebastian taking out the trash. IDK if he was saying there is video or if he was trying to get the LEO to admit there is or is not video. Whichever it’s still annoying.
My husband is like your AA. I read a story about a young woman who had a stroke while in the shower. Her husband heard her fall & investigated, saving her life. I realized if that happened to me I would die. It took a long time for me to convince him he needed to think about things like this! Fortunately he has other redeeming qualities. Some people are just oblivious.Our new admin assistant never got up from her desk to check to see what the noise was! I walked into her office and said, "hey, did you just hear that big bang?" She says, "yeah, I heard it." I then said, "well, next time you hear that kind of noise, you really should go see where it came from" and proceeded to explain that I could have been hurt or dead.
Some people are oblivious!!!