Openminded
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This is where education on parenting will help. It's not healthy to have that many children and a f/t job on top of five f/t jobs already.
Mental health help, education and free birth control can help prevent this happening to others.
It can help some but there will always be those who choose to follow a different path. I only had one child because I worked full-time and felt one child was all I could handle. I had my tubes tied a few years later after an unplanned pregnancy (thanks to an IUD failure) ended in miscarriage. I always knew beyond a shadow of a doubt I didn't want more children. I don't know her circumstances and how she ended up in such a tragic situation but it's possible she may not have believed in birth control. Not everyone does and no amount of information can convince them otherwise. Or it's possible that her husband was the one who didn't believe in birth control (since four of the children were four and under) and she just went along with it. Who knows.