TN - Infant girl dies in hot car while father works - August 14th 2024

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The child's father, Timothy Paul Blackdeer, faces reckless homicide and aggravated child abuse or neglect charges.
[The mother]".. then received a text around 6:18 a.m. from the babysitter that only two children were dropped off. She advised she didn't think anything of it and [the child] may have stayed home with her 15-year-old and 12-year-old daughters. "

Yikes.
 
“Inattentiveness & miscommunication”…..sounds like weaponized incompetence to me! Lock him up and throw away the key!!
 
IMO this one sounds like an accident. He somehow forgot to bring the baby into the sitter's home? I don't see anything indicating he purposely meant to leave her in the car, etc. He simply went to work and worked, thinking the kids were at the sitter's, as far as we can tell.

It's interesting their mother thought it was okay if she was left at home with the teenagers all day, without a plan or communication about that plan, in place.

I imagine they are all devastated...
 
IMO this one sounds like an accident. He somehow forgot to bring the baby into the sitter's home? I don't see anything indicating he purposely meant to leave her in the car, etc. He simply went to work and worked, thinking the kids were at the sitter's, as far as we can tell.

It's interesting their mother thought it was okay if she was left at home with the teenagers all day, without a plan or communication about that plan, in place.

I imagine they are all devastated...

It looks like two working parents raising 5 kids. One of them works manual job and the mother, I am not sure, but wakes up early. No prior history of leaving the kid in a car as the mother was not concerned. It is a more typical case of “forgotten baby syndrome”, imo. Both parents visibly upset.
 
It looks like two working parents raising 5 kids. One of them works manual job and the mother, I am not sure, but wakes up early. No prior history of leaving the kid in a car as the mother was not concerned. It is a more typical case of “forgotten baby syndrome”, imo. Both parents visibly upset.
Both parents were up early. The father dropped the other kids at the babysitter around 6am. The babysitter called thr mother to report the baby was not dropped off. I wonder why the babysitter did not talk about the baby not being dropped off directly to the father.

The father said he went to the gas station at lunch with his boss and only got a beverage bevause working in the heat all day makes him not hungry. I suppose it could be drugs, but it sounds like two parents with little sleep scraping together childcare while working physically hard jobs.
 
Where in the car are the car seats for babies/infants usually placed, in the passenger seat, or in the back seat?
 
Both parents were up early. The father dropped the other kids at the babysitter around 6am. The babysitter called thr mother to report the baby was not dropped off. I wonder why the babysitter did not talk about the baby not being dropped off directly to the father.

The father said he went to the gas station at lunch with his boss and only got a beverage bevause working in the heat all day makes him not hungry. I suppose it could be drugs, but it sounds like two parents with little sleep scraping together childcare while working physically hard jobs.

It doesn’t look like “that” drug, judging by dad’s mugshot. I could assume, looking at dad, sleep apnea (short neck; could be undiagnosed given his age), some other sleep disorders, ADHD. Or any combination of these.

Many people lose appetite in hot weather.

It is a very typical situation, btw. Parents who may be not super organized by nature but trying to do the best for their kids and working hard. Usually the tipping point would be something unusual (one of two cars broke and hence, one parent’s plate gets too full that day). We had such a situation with a 24-year-old dad in Texas several years ago.

Another typical component I see in such situations is poor social and family support networks, but I can’t blame grandparents either as they may not be super organized themselves. But drugs usually are less involved in these situations than one might expect.
 

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