that is too sad.. what is going on w/ these kids? forget the monitoring braclets, casterate them! 11 year old even should know its just evil to rape a baby! not to mention the teens. sorry if that is harsh, but that makes my blood boil.
ITA, tlcox, this behavior doesn't suddenly rear its ugly head one day. A few things that really bother me is that the 15 year old was led into previously unreported behavior. He's either highly impressionable or is extremely immature. Both of those issues, IMO, would rule him out as a babysitter. Can he do CPR, does he know basic first aid, etc.? He obviously did not put the baby's safety first. If he was 8, I'd be yelling for the parents to be locked up. But he's of a legal age to be babysitting and should be tried for his crime the same as any other caregiver.
We'll have to wait and see what comes out in the wash concerning the boys across the street. If they were forbidden in the house, what caused the brother to give in and let them in? I'm very interested in the dynamics here as I think parents need to pay attention to red flags and peer pressure.
Another frightful thought I had is that the three boys might have been watching pornography and, given their ages, acted out. Tragic all around.
This is what I think, too. I wouldn't be surprised to find out that the 15 year old had done other things. One doesn't simply decide to rape one day; there would be a lead up to it. Also, if the neighbor boys are so terrible, and the brother is friends enough with them to have them in the house, then that says something, too. Good kids don't generally hang out with bad kids.
A kid doesn't suddenly wake up one day and think "I've always wanted to rape a baby, and Mom's not home today, so maybe I'll give it a whirl. I know it's wrong, but opportunity's knocking..." MOST kids wouldn't have it in them to do such a vile thing. This kid has done something before, I guarantee it.
ugh...ick...gross..evil, nasty... and so on...
i dont really have a comment ...its just to much....
i want to know however...:waitasec:
who do you keep.. the suspect son? or the innocent victim?..i only have one lil girl.. but i THINK id send that boy away forever...
they can for never be allowed to live togeether ever
ever, ever, ever, eve,r again...
Unreal, horrid and evil. Not enough words to express what I feel. Such anger in me. I don't even begin to know what kind of penalty to afford these pigs. I don't care that they are kids. This is beyond any human behavior that is normal. I just want them gone. A sick, horrible act that should never have even taken place and we should not even have to address. Throw away the keys for life. I don't care what drove them to it. In fact, there is not excuse. Nothing drives children to do this to a baby. I believe they have had to molest before too.
Just so seriously unbelievable, sickening and heartbreaking.
Goz
JMO - I think kids(children) this age may know their actions are wrong but they lack empathy. They don't "feel" that what their doing is wrong, they just don't understand the reality of their actions.
The stepbrother was'nt supposed to hang with the 2 brothers - maybe they're the cool bad kids - he wanted to impress. He does not have a record.
His little stepsister probably got all the attention. What he probably got was you're the babysitter, she's little and special and you are not. She's the object of his resentment he's looking for attention.
Parents breakup or get together they are emotionally involved or resentfull of their partner, they see (or don't care) their kids as an extention of themselves, they don't explain or prepare their kids or give them a voice.
This boy is 15, his life his future-not so promising. The little girl seems thankfully ok, depends how the parents deal with it (hard to keep skeletons in the closet these days)
I really think schools should have a class that explains - its not okay to touch you that way, its not ok to punish you this way and if your parents are breaking up or getting together heres what to expect and heres the conntact number if you need advice or help.