"Guilty behavior"?
I find that term to be so subjective. We each use our own backgrounds, geographic locations (which includes the social norms in which we live, work and play), education, personalities, psychological make-up, social-economic history/situations, mental acuity, etc etc etc to draw conclusions. There seem to be only a few of us here who are coming at this from a position of understanding, compassion and empathy for the parents. We remain firmly in the "victim friendly" aspect of it, as we do consider DW and CBW to be victims.
I find the parents to display the opposite of "guilty behavior". This unsophisticated man is out there, almost alone, and is floundering around trying to get all the help he can to find his daughter. He has exposed himself beyond anything I have ever seen from a victim parent. He's rough around the edges (to say the least), yes, but he is doing the best he can within the limited confines of his world/worldview. CBW has been quiet lately. I am picturing her curled up into a fetal position in that dank, dark basement, tormented by the whole situation
. She is living every parents worse nightmare, alone and isolated for the most part. The only person with daily, direct contact with her states that she is "not doing good" and is very worried about her. She, herself, said that she tried going to work with DW to get out of the house and that didn't work. (I'm not doing a search and rescue for the links. If you don't believe me, that's okay. Consider it my opinion only.)
I respect others opinions and try to understand them but I just can't come to an understanding of the vitriol directed at the parents. It makes my heart and my head hurt.
All MOO