alwaysonmymind
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lindsy has 3 kids draggin' on her pants, no money, has to move to a new home, ask her grandmother for money, spent her last dollar on gas, Tommy wants bail, needs her to drag everyone to jail every chance to visit him more, swears off them pills for the 100th time, swears they got nothin' on him, knew it was a policeman, loves everybody, oh, and while Lindsy's scrambling to keep her head above water, Tommy's relaxin' in county: "I read me a book". :banghead:
Good grief. Is it too late to adopt Lindsy?
LOL Emma! Are you volunteering? :crazy:
I have been there too but NEVER took my kids I even visited my ex once when he assaulted a neighbor who tried to stop him from hitting me I was more scared of him than of lying for him saying he had not tried to hit me to LE So glad those days are are behind meOMG, I feel so bad. This is like dejavou. From me dragging my kids to see my sorry ex and hearing the same crap Tommy said. Spending every dime I had on him putting every dime on his books. Not buying my kids birthday presents to bail him out of jail. NEVER AGAIN. I hope Tommy is for real when he says he won't go back and I hope to heck Lyndsy puts her kids first and doesn't spend every dime she has on him. God bless their children.
I just spit my diet coke thru my nose.
Bern is 100% spot on about Lindsey, she is co-dependant and its not really surprising that she's in nursing school. Unfortunately what draws her to the field of nursing is probably what allows her to stay in her marriage. She's a nurturer, a fixer, she gets sucked into this family of misfits hook line and sinker because she can help them and they need her. Did you hear TC on the tape tell her that she still needs to help his parents out even when she moves to Palm Coast? Sounds like they take care of the parents or at least Lindsey does.
On a curious note, the Croslins have a tight knit bond that I won't call love because its filled with dysfunction but its what they perceive as love and its strong. This is very unlike the bizarre bond that the Cummings display which seems to have more aggression or gruffness to it. Just an observation and of course moo.
I know a young man who was trying to clean up & stay clean for my daughter. You wouldn't believe the pressure these people are under. His own parents were constantly bi*ching @ him because his brother was bringing in money to help pay bills. The brother is a meth dealer. with their full blessing, I might add. So, even when they DO try, they get pulled in the opposite direction. & it is almost impossible for someone to change when their family & friends want them to stay in the gutter, where they belong.I understand what you are saying, JN. BUT some people who sell drugs think they ARE doing it for their family. It's fast money, kwim? Some guys will say they were doing it to pay the rent, feed their kids, pay the bills, etc. I'm glad he got locked up but maybe he was doing it to make a quick buck for his family. If nothing else, he made enough to support his own habit, that way he didn't have to depend on his wife for that too! So sad.
OMG, I feel so bad. This is like dejavou. From me dragging my kids to see my sorry ex and hearing the same crap Tommy said. Spending every dime I had on him putting every dime on his books. Not buying my kids birthday presents to bail him out of jail. NEVER AGAIN. I hope Tommy is for real when he says he won't go back and I hope to heck Lyndsy puts her kids first and doesn't spend every dime she has on him. God bless their children.
You're right. It's easy to say that Tommy doesn't really love his family, but what Lindsay's doing is the exact same thing. But, she seems really sucked in to his family & she may not be able to turn her back. I can understand that too. She obviously loves her husband very much & is trying to salvage her family. Young people have so much hope. But if Tommy is involved in Haleigh's disappearance, (& I think he is), there's not gonna be much left to salvage. If this young lady knows something, it's time to turn on her dear ol' hubby, because some things just can't be fixed.Lindsey gets no sympathy from me. If she wants to ruin her life hanging on to a loser...fine. But, she has 3 kids who SHOULD mean more to her than any man. All she's doing is guaranteeing that the cycle repeats itself....makes me sick.
Lindsey gets no sympathy from me. If she wants to ruin her life hanging on to a loser...fine. But, she has 3 kids who SHOULD mean more to her than any man. All she's doing is guaranteeing that the cycle repeats itself....makes me sick.