Try to have some compassion

[JBean]

That's the thing, they keep on enduring it and allowing Casey to continue this cherade. I mean come on, they have a demonstration outside their house with how many people, what was Casey doing, what were they doing? How can they allow her to continue this? I wouldn't want her in my house honestly. they allow her to play on her computer while GRANDMA talks to the guy from TES, wouldn't you be like Casey get your arse in here and talk to the man who is trying to find your daughter.

How can they be calling all the media and people who fell in love with Caylee maggots? That is beyond comprehension to me. People came on to try to help find Caylee, people are upset, people want to know where Caylee is, people want answers.

So does this mean you are not going to add anything compassionate about the Anthony's on the Try and have some compassion thread?

 

[CHICANA]

And if they actually went out and tried to find Caylee. There is a way to love your children but still hold them responsible for wrongdoings, and to teach them to do the right thing. They are acting like, oh well, Caylee is gone, we still have Casey, let's move on, world forget I called 911, all is well. Stop trying to beat up the very same press you wanted at your house in the beginning to get out Caylee's pictures. Can we all be wrong in our assumptions and they be the only right ones about what happened to Caylee?

How can we assume that we know more about their daughter or family than they do ?
And it doesn't matter, maybe instead of telling CA to shut up, we should shut up. I know where my children are, they love this little girl so what they think and feel about this is way more important than whatever assumptions we might have.
How do you think Cindy and George feel right now ?
Can you even imagine their pain ?

 

[Baznme]

How would Caylee feel about how they are letting their daughter go on with this web of lies while she is missing/maybe dead. I cannot really explain how I feel about them. They may not be able to make her talk, but they can teach her by not allowing this nonsense to go on, not allowing her to be bonded out in their house while refusing to cooperate with finding their grandbaby. They are not even speaking about Caylee in the home, how can you not talk about your grandauther and where she might be?

No, I don't get it, not for 1 second. Caylee has nobody, no voice, Casey has many voices. It is not fair.

It's not their fault that they don't see what we see. That's what I am trying to get across. They will but it will take time - after Caylee is found.

 

[JBean]

I was starting to think there weren't many of us that were truly feeling bad for this family. I am so glad to see some big hearts that are looking at the big picture.

 

[AutomaticAuttie]

She hasn't even been charged with any form of murder yet!

 

[ZooMomology]

How quickly people seem to forget it was Cindy that called 911. It was Cindy that called Tim Miller with TES. You didn't understand my post obviously. They cannot see things "OBJECTIVELY".....in other words with logic. They are blocked because of the emotions they are dealing with for their kids, their grandchild. They see it as the whole world is against their daughter. It is essential that Caylee be found alive to them or they will surely not be able to bear it.

With all due respect, she called TES after how many weeks and after a BH called her to ask why she didn't call TES, and then told the media she was only doing it to satisfy us maggots.

I do understand what you are saying, I just do not see how they can be faced with this on a daily basis and not see the words written, hear the words said over and over, and not think well maybe everybody is right. Ask herself, why did Casey lie about this, why did she steal money, why is that all okay to her?

I really do not have an opinion of George, I feel he follows whatever Cindy tells him to do or say. I think as an ex-LE, he should know in his heart the real story. But, he has been getting pretty handsy lately, and I am expecting him to hit somebody and be arrested any day now. However, he really does not bother me. I do not see Lee calling us maggots, and he is supporting his sister.

 

[ZooMomology]

She hasn't even been charged with any form of murder yet!

Hopefully, very soon. It is a coming, I feel, any day now. Crossing T's and dotting I's.

 

[AutomaticAuttie]

Hopefully, very soon. It is a coming, I feel, any day now. Crossing T's and dotting I's.

Like I said she has not even been charged!

 

[CHICANA]

How would Caylee feel about how they are letting their daughter go on with this web of lies while she is missing/maybe dead. I cannot really explain how I feel about them. They may not be able to make her talk, but they can teach her by not allowing this nonsense to go on, not allowing her to be bonded out in their house while refusing to cooperate with finding their grandbaby. They are not even speaking about Caylee in the home, how can you not talk about your grandauther and where she might be?

No, I don't get it, not for 1 second. Caylee has nobody, no voice, Casey has many voices. It is not fair.

They can't control their daughter. According to the world she's a sociopath without a conscience, exactly how are they going to make her do anything ?
How do you know what they're speaking about in the home ?
From the media who aren't on the inside either ?
Are you forgetting Caylee's voice ? The one that called 911 and said please get out here, I just found out my grandaughter has been missing for a month ?
I need to find her.
They talked about Caylee all the time which is part of the reason why this case is on the news every night.

I don't get it either. Hurting Caylee's grandparents isn't giving her a voice.

 

[Baznme]

I had intended to get a few hours sleep before heading over to Orlando, about 45 minutes from here. But I couldn't sleep at all, so I joined the fellow WS members for some conversation. I'm glad I did. I see some have even given their time for prayer for the search tomorrow. I've been on them before so it is not new to me but this particular search is very important to me. This baby didn't ask for any of this and she deserves to be treated with respect as do her grandparents that loved her to the core of their being. They are scared, confused and tired. They want that baby to be where she belongs. The reality of it is she may not be alive. I hope we're wrong but I highly doubt it. Soon, I will sign off to put on long pants, sneakers, get my sunscreen, a hat and a bamboo stick with which to move branches aside and look for signs of disturbance on the ground. I don't want to be the person that finds anything yet I want some resolution to this situation. We all need to remember what's important in life and the love of a child is the ultimate gift. Please try to find some compassion even though we don't fully understand right now.

 

[ZooMomology]

So does this mean you are not going to add anything compassionate about the Anthony's on the Try and have some compassion thread?

No, see, I do not hate them. I do understand why they are doing what they are doing. They are in denial, grief, cannot believe their daughter could possibly be involved in anything like this. I do also believe that they can control what they call people who are trying to help them.

I do have sympathy for them though as grandparents. I do not know how they are sleeping, eating, showering, getting dressed to go out and function, with their grandbaby missing, and then I think they get up, take a shower, eat, all while looing at Casey who won't tell them where her baby is, and continue to go about their days.

 

[miss_vegemite]

I had intended to get a few hours sleep before heading over to Orlando, about 45 minutes from here. But I couldn't sleep at all, so I joined the fellow WS members for some conversation. I'm glad I did. I see some have even given their time for prayer for the search tomorrow. I've been on them before so it is not new to me but this particular search is very important to me. This baby didn't ask for any of this and she deserves to be treated with respect as do her grandparents that loved her to the core of their being. They are scared, confused and tired. They want that baby to be where she belongs. The reality of it is she may not be alive. I hope we're wrong but I highly doubt it. Soon, I will sign off to put on long pants, sneakers, get my sunscreen, a hat and a bamboo stick with which to move branches aside and look for signs of disturbance on the ground. I don't want to be the person that finds anything yet I want some resolution to this situation. We all need to remember what's important in life and the love of a child is the ultimate gift. Please try to find some compassion even though we don't fully understand right now.

Great post Baznme and good luck for tomorrow.

I feel sorry for Cindy and George. They are living in a nightmare. There is no script and who know how the hell we would act should we be unfortunate enough to EVER have to walk in their shoes.

 

[Baznme]

No, see, I do not hate them. I do understand why they are doing what they are doing. They are in denial, grief, cannot believe their daughter could possibly be involved in anything like this. I do also believe that they can control what they call people who are trying to help them.

I do have sympathy for them though as grandparents. I do not know how they are sleeping, eating, showering, getting dressed to go out and function, with their grandbaby missing, and then I think they get up, take a shower, eat, all while looing at Casey who won't tell them where her baby is, and continue to go about their days.

Don't you think they are lashing out because the majority seem to be against them. They are angry because someone is trying to diminish their hope that the baby is alive and that Casey would have nothing to do with it.

 

[CHICANA]

I had intended to get a few hours sleep before heading over to Orlando, about 45 minutes from here. But I couldn't sleep at all, so I joined the fellow WS members for some conversation. I'm glad I did. I see some have even given their time for prayer for the search tomorrow. I've been on them before so it is not new to me but this particular search is very important to me. This baby didn't ask for any of this and she deserves to be treated with respect as do her grandparents that loved her to the core of their being. They are scared, confused and tired. They want that baby to be where she belongs. The reality of it is she may not be alive. I hope we're wrong but I highly doubt it. Soon, I will sign off to put on long pants, sneakers, get my sunscreen, a hat and a bamboo stick with which to move branches aside and look for signs of disturbance on the ground. I don't want to be the person that finds anything yet I want some resolution to this situation. We all need to remember what's important in life and the love of a child is the ultimate gift. Please try to find some compassion even though we don't fully understand right now.

While I hope she's found, for your sake I hope you're not the one who finds her. Good luck. I wish I could be there, but I'll say an extra prayer before bed.

 

[Baznme]

While I hope she's found, for your sake I hope you're not the one who finds her. Good luck. I wish I could be there, but I'll say an extra prayer before bed.

Thank you - very much appreciated. My avatar depicts a baby sleeping peacefully in their bed. That's for Caylee.

 

[ZooMomology]

They can't control their daughter. According to the world she's a sociopath without a conscience, exactly how are they going to make her do anything ?
How do you know what they're speaking about in the home ?
From the media who aren't on the inside either ?
Are you forgetting Caylee's voice ? The one that called 911 and said please get out here, I just found out my grandaughter has been missing for a month ?
I need to find her.
They talked about Caylee all the time which is part of the reason why this case is on the news every night.

I don't get it either. Hurting Caylee's grandparents isn't giving her a voice.

I am going by what Cindy told the press, that she is telling Casey how much she loves her and they are talking about the madness outside their house, and that asking her where Caylee is is the investigator's job. If this is not a true statement, why say it? If they are talking about where Caylee might be, when media asks, say no comment.

Again, I am not in their shoes, I hope to never be in their shoes, and I wish more than anything that baby be found alive and well. I feel bad that their dauhgter is doing this to them, making them go through this constant madness, but until they get to that grief level where they can accept what happened they are not winning over too many people with the way they appear to be behaving poorly.

I thought Lenny was a fruitcake when i first heard he was coming in and bonding her out. I was very angry with him. He has admitted many times he was wrong on national TV. Now, I find him a compassionate good guy. Mayber the day Cindy says I am sorry, thank you all for loving Caylee, and although I love my daughter, she needs accept responsibility, I will be able to feel more compassion for her.

I do not, however, think either of the grandparents are in any way involved in whatever happened like some do.

 

[miss_vegemite]

Don't you think they are lashing out because the majority seem to be against them. They are angry because someone is trying to diminish their hope that the baby is alive and that Casey would have nothing to do with it.

What you say, makes a lot of sense to me. What are their choices here - give up on believing there is a chance that Caylee is still alive and Casey killed her in some way!
- or keep holding on, until the end, believing that Caylee is alive and will be found.

I certainly don't agree with a lot of things about Cindy and George, but on a psychological level, I understand where they are coming from.

 

[CHICANA]

No, see, I do not hate them. I do understand why they are doing what they are doing. They are in denial, grief, cannot believe their daughter could possibly be involved in anything like this. I do also believe that they can control what they call people who are trying to help them.

I do have sympathy for them though as grandparents. I do not know how they are sleeping, eating, showering, getting dressed to go out and function, with their grandbaby missing, and then I think they get up, take a shower, eat, all while looing at Casey who won't tell them where her baby is, and continue to go about their days.

The media's not trying to help them. That was made painfully obvious when, after nicely telling a reporter that they had some leads and Caylee was alive, the reporter asked him if he thought his daughter accidentally killed Caylee.

Good point though, they are a lot stronger than I am. I would probably curl up in bed, not shower or eat and take whatever meds I could get to not have to imagine that the child that I loved more than life was killed by another child that I loved just as much.

 

[Baznme]

What you say, makes a lot of sense to me. What are their choices here - give up on believing there is a chance that Caylee is still alive and Casey killed her in some way!
- or keep holding on, until the end, believing that Caylee is alive and will be found.

I certainly don't agree with a lot of things about Cindy and George, but on a psychological level, I understand where they are coming from.

Again, they don't see yet......what we see. They will - after Caylee is found. God bless them.

 

[ZooMomology]

Don't you think they are lashing out because the majority seem to be against them. They are angry because someone is trying to diminish their hope that the baby is alive and that Casey would have nothing to do with it.

I can't speak for the majority, but for myself, I am not against them. All I want them to do is make thier daughter be responsible by stepping back and allowing her to clean up her own mess, and stop lying to cover her. That is all I want. I think most people are angry with Casey and she just happens to be staying with her mother, so that anger is crossing over to Cindy for allowing her to stay there.

Think of it this way, say Joseph Duncan was bonded out, you know the Groene murders/kidnapping/rape, and somebody said he could stay with them while out on bond, don't you think the public would be angry with that person allowing him to stay with them, after what he has done?