I agree, the very early alarm bells get me as much as the late ones.. My partner has an "email all the time" job as well, and sometimes pulls over to communicate and if need be, log on to meetings on her phone or even run into a near by coffee shop.. so I would assume that would be what was happening, too much work popped up all at once to make it home before the meeting started.
I have zero solid theories, and car-jacking doesn't particularly strike me in this case.. however I've always leaned "closer to home"
moo.
Ditto. I’d panic earlier if I knew (or suspected) there was a threat or a meet-up. IMO. I initially thought a carjacking gone wrong but I keep going back to that panic. Not worry but panic. MOO.