I understand what you are saying, but having a hard time figuring out why you are saying that now. I can't think of anyone directly involved in the case who seems to have inserted themselves. The boyfriend helped to some degree early, but I haven't heard anything recent. Of course, there are probably hundreds who have helped to some degree in searches and thoughts. The recent protests might have brought in another fresh group of people who could be described as inserting themselves. There have been a few on this site who have helped and I believe there are over 1,500 on the closed fb group and another 3,500 or so 'likes' on the community one. I'm trying to understand why you are stating that now. Help?