Camie as I was told was arrested for possession or failing a drug test. Cant remember which one and they removed the child from the home. His foster family is relative of another friend Joel and I graduated with. Korys ex long term girlfriend before he married Camie lives a couple blocks from me. Shes devistated. Kory had a vasectomy is why we know the child isnt his. Friends of the family have said the family has no clue as to where his actual biological dad is now.
Thank you for all the inside details you've provided. Really appreciate it.
Want to clarify one misperception about vasectomies. They can and do fail. It happened to a very close relative of mine. When she became pregnant, her husband went into a tailspin because he had a vasectomy 10 months prior.
He had also gone back for rechecks as recommended and had zero sperm count at each one.
After the positive pregnancy test, her husband went in for a sperm count again. It then showed that sperm were indeed present. Not a real high count, but still some were there.
She insisted he was the father but he had doubts. It threw their wonderful marriage into severe turmoil until the baby's birth.
They had paternity testing done as soon as possible and it proved her husband was indeed the father of the baby, despite the vasectomy. (We are very close; she showed me the official results.)
The well-respected urologist who did the vasectomy apologized for its failure but said it happens more often than people realize because the body treats the vasectomy as an injury and will try to heal it. He did give him another vasectomy for free.
Their 'vasectomy' baby has turned out to be the light of their lives! She is 9 years old now, and not only a wonderful, sunny personality but extremely bright. Is a straight A student in the advanced program. She is a joy in every way.
Her sister, just 18 months older, who was very wanted, has learning disabilities, and emotional difficulties. Life with her is challenging.
Funny how things go sometimes...