pjclover
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Hi Pjclover, The obit gave a birthday and said that she lived formerly in Scottsdale. It did not say that she was born there. I think the whole Scottsdale association was made up. She moved around Texas a lot from 1988 to the time she married in 2004.
Thanks, Claire! I recalled that incorrectly, which adds to my confusion about whether I think the info in the obituary was correct or not!
Here's what I'm thinking now: there is only one solid piece of information in that obituary that gives any type of time frame pre-1988: her date of birth. The Scottsdale connection is non-committal - she lived there, at some point. No place of origin. No high school. No mention of predeceased parents. Now it seems to me like the obit was written by someone who either a) knew nothing about LR's past or b) knew not to publish what they thought was true about LR's past because it was most likely a lie. If scenario B is correct, that makes the very specific DOB stick out even more to me.
This case also has me wondering what I would do if I was in her husband's situation. We haven't found any evidence that he's actively pursuing information about his wife's true identity. He didn't go on Dr. Phil, create a website, publish information that he knows in the hopes that someone will give a tip. Maybe he knows something that he's not sharing, or - more likely- he isn't interested in knowing. I would be all over the internet wanting some sort of closure, but everyone is different. I have a feeling that the missing puzzle pieces he could provide won't be brought to light - at least for a long time.